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Ciao
- viole
I feel unsure of how to read your comment./…/Is it questioning the meaning of, or the morality behind, the concept of “loving thy neighbour/brother/enemy”?
Thank you viole, for helping me better understand your comment/question.
The
love we speak of in “love thy brother/neighbour/enemy”, can be understood as a
will to comprehend what lay behind another’s choices and actions.
The purpose of trying to comprehend this is at first seldom based on love, but rather on judgment. That is; initially, we believe that our bother/neighbour/enemy is different to us and that we are right. We want to understand, in order to judge them - often to our own advantage.
Yet, the more we dissect and try to comprehend what lay behind another’s choices and actions, the more we come to see that what that is, is almost always the same for everyone: emotions*. We
feel and then - sometimes -, we rationalise what we feel into meaningful stories that justify (to ourselves) what we intend to do
from those emotions.
*As a “mathematician”, that may sound disgusting to you and you may absolutely claim that you do not do this yourself; that is okay.
When we live our lives trying to comprehend our brother/neighbour/enemy in order to judge them, eventually, we do so out of “love” because we come to understand that they are
not so different to us - nor to each other, for that matter. We experience the
same emotions, but for different things and we confront
different obstacles, but in similar ways.
You learn
why it is ethical to “love thy brother/neighbour/enemy” when you understand the following fact:
The evil you encounter in others, is their expression of pain… anger… hatred… desire for revenge.
And, one cannot combat pain by inflicting more pain, because more pain will only lead to more anger and more anger will only lead to more hatred and more hatred will only lead to more desire for revenge and more revenge will only lead to the spreading of more pain and you see where this is going, I am certain.
Humbly
Hermit