Shantanu
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guru-pādāśraya, dīkṣā, gurura sevana
sad-dharma-śikṣā-pṛcchā, sādhu-mārgānugamana
"On the path of regulative devotional service, one must observe the following items: (1) One must accept a bona fide spiritual master. (2) One must accept initiation from him. (3) One must serve him. (4) One must receive instructions from the spiritual master and make inquiries in order to learn devotional service. (5) One must follow in the footsteps of the previous ācāryas and follow the directions given by the spiritual master. [C.C. Madhya 22.115]
One should be extremely careful in selecting his Guru. He should take shelter of a sad-guru, who is self-realized.
Gurus are for those who do not know how to find out about things themselves. I once treated someone as my guru and even started calling him guruji/gurudev because he seemed so knowledgeable and helpful but a time came when I regretted it so much that I stopped calling anyone my guru after that. Partly this was due to the saying that 'once bitten twice shy' but partly I realised that I am and always was my own guru because I have a way of probing and I put a lot of effort into finding out about things. Self-exposure, skepticism of established 'facts' and learing from experience to change oneself on a daily basis to what is true are the key to the development of self-guru, that is a guru who teaches himself/herself.
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