Shadow Wolf
Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
Sorry, I didn't intend to come across as offended. It's more of a frustration over the assumption that everyone who isn't a psychopath has empathy, which very typically extends to a requirement of empathy to be a good person, which just is not the case for the vast majority of those who lack empathy or are empathy impaired. It helps to not have it if you're going to be a serial killer, but it's rare for that to happen.Absolutely... and I sincerely apologize if my post came across as offensive. It was not meant as such, but I should have used more inclusive phrasing than "sociopaths."
It tends to come easier for Aspies because we have an inborn predisposition to think logically over emotionally. Of course we can also have some very strong feelings and emotions (rage isn't uncommon), and be very compassionate towards are interests and people who are close to us, but for the most part we tend to be grounded in logic and searching for facts and information rather than considering emotional needs and concerns (rationalizing emotional issues away is pretty common).It takes a concerted and disciplined effort for others to act as effectively.
Dr. Brennan from Bones is actually a pretty good example of typical Aspie traits and thinking.