Hey guys, congratulations on violating so many rules of ethical conduct as established by the American Anthropological Association! It really was a tour de force. If you care
here are the ethics rules as laid down by said organization.
Here are a few of the highlights:
Anthropological researchers must do everything in their power to ensure that their research does not harm the safety, dignity, or privacy of the people with whom they work, conduct research, or perform other professional activities.
Anthropological researchers should obtain in advance the informed consent of persons being studied, providing information, owning or controlling access to material being studied, or otherwise identified as having interests which might be impacted by the research.
Anthropological researchers who have developed close and enduring relationships (i.e., covenantal relationships) with either individual persons providing information or with hosts must adhere to the obligations of openness and informed consent, while carefully and respectfully negotiating the limits of the relationship.
As atheists, I am sure you are big proponents of science. So I have to wonder why not follow the ethical rules as laid down by the scientists who practice this kind of research, namely anthropologists?
I also have to question what data you were trying to get out of the whole thing. You didn't get any data which you could not also have received through observation. This is mainly because you did not experience that which a person going through this process honestly would have experienced. There was nothing at stake for you, nothing existential mattered. Thus whatever you experienced, it had nothing to do with Mormons or what they experience. For example, during the baptismal interview, nothing was as stake for you, so whatever anticipation, nerves, or whatever you may have experienced is nothing like what a real investigator would experience. You had the same experience as you would have had if you just read the interview questions to each other. And I might add that would actually be ethical.
Finally, as an ex Mormon I no longer believe what you were taught and experienced, so this is not a matter of me being an offended Mormon. But I would hope in the future you would take basic ethical considerations into account and do good science, not crap sensationalism. Not believing does not give you carte blanche to be unethical towards groups whose beliefs you do not hold. Allow me to conclude with more from the AAA code of ethics:
These obligations can supersede the goal of seeking new knowledge, and can lead to decisions not to undertake or to discontinue a research project when the primary obligation conflicts with other responsibilities