Hmmm....I *was* thinking. Which is why I bring into question whether one's culture should be forced while too young to understand the choice.
My friend, you are a math genius. Perhaps you should spend a little more time in the soft sciences. It has to do with the way culture works. Enculturation begins the day we are born. Some of it is conscious, like when woman learns how to breastfeed, but most of it is unconscious in a million zillion ways. None of us have a choice in this. And if it weren't this way, we wouldn't have culture, and evolution would go back hundreds of millions of years. Culture is what has given us control over nature, over our own evolution even. Even if it is imperfect, you can't just throw it out.
I don't know if you are an American or not, but I am, and American culture is pretty strong on individualism and personal choice, which is what you are advocating.
You have been indoctrinated in this since you were a toddler. Your mother asks you when you were two, "Do you you want the cheerios?" (and she shakes the little box) "Or do you want golden fish" and she shakes that box.) And she actually let's you choose. Do you think this would happen in 90% of the rest of the world? Certainly not. The child would simply get whatever the parent decided was best for it. You are a product of your own culture.
Now you wish to force that culture on others. The fact that you ARE willing to force violates your own ethic of personal choice, and that makes it a quagmire, one that you fail to see.
Because I am a culture within the culture, and have grown up with conflicting messages, I see it from both sides.