Interesting. That would make Christianity a tiny religion in your opinion. Even the stories about the martyrs would be of non-Christians, since they disobeyed authority.
I understand where you come from.
It's complex...
Christianity was carried into the world by those who openly breached its principles
(such as conquest, force conversion, syncretism etc..)
I believe God allowed this. It's strange, I know.
But through the principles enunciated in scripture people could make up their
minds what was right and wrong.
That's how the bible was preserved for three or four thousand years - it was
often carried by those who had no regard to God's precepts but found something
within the book worth preserving in their eyes (ie Jewish history, wisdom literature)
And to disobey. In scripture there was only a single case where a person could
disobey the law - when it conflicted with God's law (ie the story of three thrown
into the furnace in Daniel, those beaten for preaching Jesus etc..) Note these
people DIDN'T FIGHT but accepted their punishment.