1-I think you miss the general point (lesson) of Surah al-Tahrim,and you stuck in details that you don't concern.
it is was about Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) when he swear to not sleep with his wives for month(forbid), because that demostic problem.(jealousy). so God don't forbid what is "halal"
Your interpretation doesn't match with the Chapter of At-Taharim.
The first verse of the Sura says that Prophet Muhammad prohibited a thing for himslf
to seek the pleasure of his wives. But your interpretation implies that Prophet Muhammad prohibited a thing for himself
to punish her wives.
In adition, not to have sexual intercourse with the wives for a month, doesn't seek the pleasure of the wives. While, the verse says that the Holy Prophet sweared to not to do a thing to make his wives happy. Please try to understand the point.
2- This is not a Hadith of
Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). we discuss this before in this post
Friday at 4:57 AM#18
Ok, but also consider the warning of Prophet Muhammad to Aesha. He said to her frequently that not to come out from her house to making the war of Jamal, and Prophet said to Aesha that this war results in killing of many of the Muslims.
These are the Hadiths of Prophet, don't they?
3-seems you miss this
أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ
لِعَلِيِّ بْنِ أَبِي طَالِبٍ : إِنَّهُ سَيَكُونُ بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَ
عَائِشَةَ أَمْرٌ ، قَالَ : فَأَنَا أَشْقَاهُمْ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ؟ قَالَ : لَا وَلَكِنْ إِذَا كَانَ ذَلِكَ فَارْدُدْهَا إِلَى مَأْمَنِهَا
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O yes. This Hadith clearly says that the war of Jamal was between Imam Ali and Aesha(إِنَّهُ سَيَكُونُ
بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَ عَائِشَةَ أَمْرٌ, O Ali, an issue will take place
between you and Aesha). So, Aesha fought against Imam Ali in the war of Jamal.
Also the tradition says that in this issue, Ali is upon the good. Because after that Imam Ali asked from Prophet that is he the bad one in this issue, Prophet answered him, 'No'.
Translation of the Hadith,
The Apostle said to Ali,
'Certainly an issue(the war of Jamal) will occur between you and Aesha.'
Then Ali asked from Prophet,' O Messenger of Allah, so am I the bad one?'
the Messenger replied,' No[=Aesha is the bad one], but when this issue takes place, send her to her home.'
This Hadith clearly says that an issue, i.e., the war of Jamal, will take place between Imam Ali and Aesha in which Imam Ali is not the bad one.
Sorry brother I feel that I making sins by speaking for our prophet honor ,"his wives".
I prefer to stop here,I am out of this thread.
May Allah forgive us.
Salam.
I do not feel that I am doing sin when I am exploring the truth.
Good luck dear brother!