Thanks for sharing.
That shows good insight and capacity for self reflection IMHO. It is not good to stereotype any group.
I think that's a really difficult position if you have a spouse who really wants you to become something you feel uncomfortable with. In life we all need to be able to reach key decisions in our life without undue influence from those closest to us. When it comes to decisions about faith or no faith, best we base that decision on what we really believe. I think some people are never reach that stage of maturity where they can make such a decision independently.
I can relate to wanting to test your ideas out. That's part of the deal for me too.
I would hope you can find some moderate theists to talk to. Being anti-theistic seems really unhealthy to me. You then have a rather large chunk of humanity you either feel some aversion towards or can not really understand. For me being able to relate to people from diverse backgrounds (atheists included) is hugely important.
It’s not just you. I’ve noticed a long-running trend of Baha’is who join here and spend most of all of their time promoting their religion. When I ask them why they’re doing this for a “non-proselytizing” religion, they get evasive.
It’s almost at the point that I’m inclined to say that this is a standard Baha'i approach, but I have to remind myself that I’m falling into the Toupee Fallacy and I have no idea how many adherents of the religion are just quietly going about their lives not calling attention to their religion.
https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Toupee_fallacy
That shows good insight and capacity for self reflection IMHO. It is not good to stereotype any group.
No, actually.
I originally joined to see if I could find ways to overcome my objections to theism in general and Catholicism in particular, with the aim of trying to find a way to make my Catholic (now ex-) wife happy by converting.
I think that's a really difficult position if you have a spouse who really wants you to become something you feel uncomfortable with. In life we all need to be able to reach key decisions in our life without undue influence from those closest to us. When it comes to decisions about faith or no faith, best we base that decision on what we really believe. I think some people are never reach that stage of maturity where they can make such a decision independently.
These days, I’m mainly here for two reasons:
- to throw my beliefs and arguments out for criticism so that I can better find their weak points and hopefully get rid of the stuff that isn’t justified, and.
- to try to find a way to avoid just falling into contempt for religion and theism, since a decade of examining these things in depth has put me on that path. I recognize that this might be a futile and irrational goal.
I can relate to wanting to test your ideas out. That's part of the deal for me too.
I would hope you can find some moderate theists to talk to. Being anti-theistic seems really unhealthy to me. You then have a rather large chunk of humanity you either feel some aversion towards or can not really understand. For me being able to relate to people from diverse backgrounds (atheists included) is hugely important.