What are your thoughts on this comment from someone else?
Policy means rules. They have rules that they must obey to be considered Jehovah's Witnesses. They have rules to starve their loved ones of love so that those who wish to leave will beg their way back. This is what they are being taught to do. It is not considered by them a choice. If they don't obey the rules then they will be treated coldly by most other JWs.
If I was not a JW and my adult child decided to live a life that I disapproved of, I would not support it. I would have no desire to continue a relationship with someone who was committing acts that offended ME...let alone offended my God.
There are many parents out there who have no contact with their adult children because of their chosen lifestyle, that has nothing to do with religion...it is a matter of upholding common decency. Some of us still have morals and a sense of right and wrong that has not been corrupted by this world.
Why single out JW's in this? We won't support that person's lifestyle if it is offensive to us.
When we send our children to their room for time out because we want them to understand the gravity of their bad behavior, do we allow the other kids in the family to go and play with them. Why don't we?