Collectivism results in the most good for the most people, but parasitism results in the greatest immediate good for the individual(s) that practices it.
The prisoner's dilemma restated. It's also akin to Popper's paradox regarding tolerance and the intolerance of intolerance. The humanist vision for society is utilitarian and includes marginalizing and neutralizing the parasites. It's the basis of partisan American politics today and the difference between the liberal, humanistic view and the alt-right, Machiavellian view.
The distinctions you draw in your mind between your inner and outer worlds, between the object, the observer, and the act of observation, between yourself and the world within and without you, are illusions caused by your limited perspective.
OK, but that "limited" perspective defines the human condition. That "illusion" is imposed on thought, which is structured as a subject (first person) observing an object (his conscious content) understood as occurring in spacetime theater occupied by energy, matter, and force. What makes that an illusion to you? And what benefit is achieved by "seeing further"?
I look at a chair beside me and get my subjective first-person perspective of it. Then I move and get another and another. Eventually, I devise a 3D model of a chair in my mind that combines all perspectives. OK, there's the "Illusion" and the "reality." The reality model is only a device for predicting subsequent experience of that chair from any angle. It's an induction, with specific sightings of the chair "deductions."
Here's the main thing: that "illusion" - the individual conscious experience - is more important to me than that model, which only has value to the extent that it accurately predicts those "deductions." My reality perforce is in here. Color can be called illusion, but color (and brightness) is how we experience visible light. I don't denigrate that. What out there is irrelevant except to the extent that it can impact in here (experience), so, given that I always have and always will be confined to in here, which is the illusion?
It seems the key to happiness is found in good relationships, nurtured through selfless behaviour.
Assuming we ever learn it at all, we learn what makes us happy empirically, through trial-and-error, discovering along the way what brings lasting contentment and how to make and keep that a reality.
Well given all the advances science has undoubtedly made over the last 400 years, and certainly in the last century, utopia musty be just around the corner. Just one last application of scientific principles to humanity's seemingly intractable problems, and we'll have all the peace, happiness and fulfilment we could possibly desire. If we haven't made the planet uninhabitable in the process.
Only science has made life better. Religion hasn't done that. Science has made life longer, more functional (eyeglasses), safer (vaccines), more comfortable (air conditioning), easier (automobiles), and more interesting (international travel, electronic media).
I want to promote philosophy to those who believe science is better because it can apparently give concrete answers (which it can't) and has somehow usurped philosophy, as though they are doing the same thing, which of course they aren't.
I'm also a fan of philosophy and don't understand why it is so quickly dismissed by so many.
In order to maximise happiness scientifically shouldn't you just be off your tits on coke all the time?
Does that make maximize your happiness? If you think so, go for it. Utilitarian ethics seeks to create a society that maximizes the social and economic opportunities to pursue happiness as one understands that within the framework of the law for as many as possible. Yes, what you describe is not just foolish, but also illegal, but I don't agree with criminalizing such drug use.
It was a joke, of course, but my main point is if you want to increase happiness scientifically you'd just turn everyone into super hedonists who would ruin society.
Not at all. I'm happy, but am not a hedonist ruining society. Au contraire. We're a positive force in our community, making a difference where we can as volunteers (I volunteer at the bridge club, where I direct and teach) and through charities (there are a lot of happy dogs now with forever homes in our community). We've also gone solar, which is a benefit to everybody, but especially ourselves, and which also gives us satisfaction. We make our friends lives happier as they do ours. We are happy with a simple life. Pleasure for us is safety, comfort, love, beauty, leisure, and freedom from want, fear, anxiety, shame, remorse, guilt, etc.. Yesterday, we played bridge in the bridge club followed by a nice dinner out, and then home for the news, Jeopardy, and two hours on the terrace watching the sun go down while listening to a Grateful Dead concert with our dogs and a glass of wine.
I doubt that's what you mean by becoming "super hedonists who would ruin society." And we arrived at all of that empirically - discovering what works and what brings relatively long-lasting happiness. We intend to live like this for as long as we can, and it appears to be sustainable for as long as health and external conditions permit. And I believe that we will leave the world a better place in the process. Win-win.