Hi cocolia42,
Well my general observation about Abrahamic scripture is that it has always ended up causing a confusion and misunderstanding in the world. By no means am I limiting this opinion to the Quran.
As I said earlier, IMHO, if a non-Muslim wants to understand peaceful, modern Muslims, I'd say that just about the worst place to start would be the Quran. As you and TashaN (and many others), have said over and over again: "icehorse, you're not seeing the context, and the historical perspective, and Mecca and Medina and on and on...".
What's important to realize is that 99.99% of non-Muslims are NOT going to embark on a 1000 hour journey of ancient Islamic scholarship. It just isn't going to happen.
I'll also repeat that the goal of having non-Muslims understand Muslims better certainly is NOT going to solve all the world's problems. And I'll also repeat the the West has a lot of serious problems as well.
But the fact is, that in the West, Islam and Muslims are typically NOT well understood. So this thread is just about chipping away at this one problem.
As I said earlier cocolia42, I like the list of values that you offered - hooray! But again, if you were to ask 1000 non-Muslims to read the Quran and summarize it's main messages, none of those people would come up with a list anything at all like your list. Not even close.
So, if you're interested in helping the people of the world understand each other better, pointing to scripture, any Abrahamic scripture, is a bad idea. And the problem is, lots of Muslims DO point at their scripture, and this causes confusion, not understanding.
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But, as you and TashaN have said over and over again, you folks can "interpret" God's commands all day long. Another way of saying this is that you don't think God did a very good job with his book. Because you're saying that someone like me can't just read the words. You're saying that God can't speak for himself - but that he needs Islamic scholars to help him be clear. Now, I don't really care, but if I did, I *could* take great offense at this. If I cared, I *could* say to you and TashaN "How dare you interpret God's words for me!" "Who put you in charge?" "Who says you know anything more about the Quran than I do?"
Remember, I'm not really saying those things, but hypothetically, I think you'd be hard pressed to have good answers, without conflicting with what the Quran says about itself. Remember the Quran declares itself to be "clear and easily understood".