In Catholicism, November is the traditional month for remembering the dead and visiting gravesites to pay respects. Saint's days are usually on the day of their death, for this is seen as a happy homecoming to Heaven where they will enjoy the Beatific Vision for all eternity. We pray for the dead and the dying, so that they may find joy in the hereafter. St. Michael the Archangel is traditionally viewed as the Angel of death, who comes to take the soul to their personal judgment.
Some Catholic prayers dealing with death:
ACCEPTANCE OF DEATH
We, too, O God, will descend into the grave whenever it shall please you, as it shall please you, and wheresoever it shall please you. Let your just decrees be fulfilled; let our sinful bodies return to their parent dust, but, in your great mercy, receive our immortal souls, and when our bodies have risen again, place them likewise in your kingdom, that we may love and bless you for ever and ever.
R. Amen.
or:
Dear God and Father of mine, Lord of life and death, with an immutable decree you have established that, as a just chastisement for our sins, all of us have to die. Look at me here bent low before you. From the bottom of my heart, I abhor my past faults, for which I have merited death a thousand times, a death that I now accept as atonement for my sins and as proof of my submission to your lovable will. O Lord, happily will I die at the moment, in the place, and in the way that you want. And until that day I will take advantage of the days of life that remain in order to fight against my defects and grow in your love, to break the bonds that tie my heart to creatures, and to prepare my soul to appear in your presence; and from this moment on I abandon myself without reserve into the arms of your fatherly providence.
Prayer for a Happy Death
O my Creator and Father, I beg of you the most important of all
your graces: that of final perseverance and a holy death. Despite the fact that I have greatly misused the life you have given me, grant me the grace to live it well from this moment on and to end it in your holy love.
Let me die as the holy patriarchs died, leaving this valley of tears without sadness, to go and enjoy eternal rest in my true homeland.
Let me die as did glorious St. Joseph, accompanied by Jesus and Mary, pronouncing those sweetest of names, which I hope to extol for all eternity.
Let me die as did the Immaculate Virgin, in the purest of love and with the desire of uniting myself to the only object of my love.
Let me die as did Jesus on the cross, fully identified with the will of the Father and made into a holocaust for the sake of love.
Jesus, having accepted death for me, grant me the grace of dying in an act of perfect love for you.
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for me now and at the hour of my death.
St. Joseph, my father and lord, win for me the favor of dying as one of the just.
Prayer for the Moment of Death
O Lord, my God, from this moment on I accept with a good will, as something coming from your hand, whatever kind of death you want to send me, with all its anguish, pain, and
sorrow.
V. Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,
R. I give you my heart and my soul.
V. Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,
R. Assist me in my last agony.
V. Jesus, Mary, and Joseph,
R. May I sleep and take my rest in peace with you.
PRAYER OF COMMENDATION
When the moment of death seems near, the following prayer may be said:
I commend you, my dear brother (sister),
to almighty God
and entrust you to your Creator.
May you return to him
who formed you from the dust of the earth.
May holy Mary, the angels, and all the saints
come to meet you as you go forth from this life.
May Christ, who was crucified for you,
bring you freedom and peace.
May Christ, who died for you,
admit you into his garden of paradise.
May Christ, the true Shepherd,
acknowledge you as one of his flock.
May he forgive all your sins
and set you among those he has chosen.
May you see your Redeemer face to face
and enjoy the vision of God for ever.
R. Amen.
Saints of God, come to his (her) aid!
Come to meet him (her), angels of the Lord!
R. Receive his (her) soul and present him (her) to God, the Most High.
May Christ, who called you, take you to himself;
may angels lead you to Abraham’s side. R.
Give him (her) eternal rest, O Lord,
and may your light shine on him (her) for ever. R.
Let us pray.
All-powerful and merciful God,
we commend to you N., your servant.
In your mercy and love,
blot out the sins he (she) has committed
through human weakness.
In this world he (she) has died:
let him (her) live with you for ever.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
These verses may also be used:
V. Eternal rest grant unto him (her), O Lord.
R. And let perpetual light shine upon him (her).
V. May he (she) rest in peace.
R. Amen.
V. May his (her) soul
and the souls of all the faithful departed,
through the mercy of God, rest in peace.
R. Amen.
We may also pray to see family members again. For example:
For a parent:
Let us pray.
Almighty God,
you command us to honor father and mother.
In your mercy forgive the sins of my (our) parents
and let me (us) one day see him (her) again
in the radiance of eternal joy.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
For a brother or sister:
Let us pray.
God, our Maker and Redeemer,
in your mercy hear my (our) prayer.
Grant forgiveness and peace
to my (our) brother (sister) N. and N.,
who longed for your mercy.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
R. Amen.
Etc.