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I don't have answers, only various thoughts. Science doesn't have answers on this.In the modern day, I ask this sincerely.
It's a phrase that's so common in the books I cringe every time I hear it. It's clearly a sign of medical ignorance.
Psychology groups it with the dissociatiative disorders, but is unable to do anything to help it. The only known help is actually exorcism, but not always, and when it does help, it is often over the course of many years.
A description of possession would be where a person begins to lose control over what they say and do, and attributes this to a force outside their body. Furthermore, after psychological assessment, no other mental illness can be found for it (i.e. they are not malingering, not psychotic, it is not due to a personality disorder, etc.) and there is no underlying physical ailment (such as epilepsy). Indeed, the Catholic Church will not even consider exorcism unless physical and mental illness is first ruled out. It is also worth noting that the behaviors are usually deleterious to the individual and become more so over time.
Possession is interpreted differently by different cultures. In some, it is the simple possession by one's ancestors, or the possession by a Buddha or other deceased spirit whom one is channeling. In others, it is a malevolent spirit, or demon.
The best known exorcism was the one in the movie, The Exorcist, which was popular in the 70's. The movie was based on a true life story, though dramatized. What they don't tell you in the movie though, was that the actual case lasted a long, long time. Exorcisms really don't happen in just a one time several hours kind of thing. They go on for months, sometimes years. Sometimes they don't work at all.
I did have the occasion to talk with a Catholic exorcist. He would not go into detail about what he did. But he did VERY MUCH believe in the reality of demons. When I said I wasn't sure if I did or not, he simply said with conviction that if I had seen what he had seen, I would believe without doubt. One of the things he said that was interesting was that people "slid" into demon possession. I remember what he said, and researched it afterwards, and there are definitely known stages.
It would often begin with voluntary, willful entertainment of sin and sinful ideas. Sure most people do that, but with some they go further, inviting rationalizations for evil. They spread their sin to more areas and take steps to numb their conscience. It is not unusual for the person to dabble in the occult--some say this "opens a window." The evil may take shape and form in their consciousness as a person or animal that they "see" in their dreams or which simply comes into their minds. This is still not demon possession; it is still just ordinary sin.
But then manifestations begin. Hearing footsteps, hints of voices. Smelling strange odors. Objects around the house being moved without any apparent reason. This stage is called Infestation. All the manifestations effect objects, not the person.
The next stage is called Oppression. It is attacks against the person. We are talking about frequent illnesses, depression, anxiety... Sleep problems like anxieties and frequent nightmares. Employment problems and financial difficulties. Okay, okay so these things happen in every life. But do they happen in rapid success? One right after the other? Or God forbid all at once? When they avalanche, that is a sign of Oppression.
Next is Obsession. The person realizes that a demonic force is at work and dwells upon it, and at the lack of control they have over their life.
Incomplete Possession. The person is compromised but is still fighting. They are so broken down by the earlier stages that the demon is able to occasionally obtain control over their actions. Telltale signs of possession are inhuman strength, speaking in languages they've never learned, inordinate aversion to holy objects, and knowledge of events they could not possibly know.
Complete Possession. The person has given themselves over. They have decided they like being possessed and they work with the demon.
What is my own personal opinion? I'm just not sure. Certainly something terrible and evil is going on, but I don't honestly know if the problem is external or internal. I know that in my past I've had a tendency to write of as mental illness what has actually been evil, and I need to watch out lest I make that mistake here as well. What I do know for sure is that I haven't seen anything about psychiatric successes. I do know that exorcism, although limited, does seem to help. If I know of someone, I would therefore go this route.