So you pick and choose, basically. That’s fine. I was like that. But there are problems. Some ahadith, for example those describing Muhammad fingering his wife during that time of the month, may seem distasteful to a lot of people. Back when I believe I believed in it because I thought it served the purpose of showing that a woman on her period is NOT unclean.
I'm not aware of which Hadith you're referring to. Where is that Hadith?
For my approach, if by pick and choose you mean i choose what i like and dismiss what i don't, no i don't do that.
There are many Hadiths, and then there are people's work in determining which Hadiths are authentic and which are not. I'm not obliged by the religion to accept their conclusions. I accept most of the considered to be authentic Hadiths, except for a few, that in my eyes are contradictory to the Quran, which is the main thing. They also happen to advocate things that are not even coherent with the general spirit of Islam.
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