It is simply my experience talking. Heck, what would I know, eh? I have just noticed that modest dressers usually look neat, but somewhat boring. BTW: "Focus on attraction" would tend to illicit compliments. I have yet to commend anyone on a modest outfit simply because they tend to look frightfully dull. For example I have never been driven to say to someone, "Wow. What an incredibly boring outfit. It is so YOU!" Perhaps I'm just not "getting it" though. Granted Paris Hilton takes it to the extreme, but hey, my creedo is, "Honey, if you've got it, flaunt it." I also think the Greeks and Romans were far more civilized in this area than our so-called "advanced" society.