michel, I believe, as some others, that when we die we cease to exist, except in God's mind. He knows every detail about us and we will be resurrected just as He wants us.
Starting with Adam, the Lord God said, "...you are dust and to dust shall you return,"
See also, Job 10:9; Psa, 90:3 and others. NOTE: He said "you", not "your body."
Many times the scriptures tell us that in death, the grave (Sheol), there is no remembrance, no knowledge, no praise.
Psa. 6:5 "For in death there is no remembrance of Thee; in Sheol who can give you praise?"
Psa. 30:9 "What profit will there be in my blood when I go down to the pit? Shall the dust praise Thee? Shall it declare thy truth?"
Psa. 88:10-12 "Will Thou show wonders to the dead? Shall the dead arise and praise Thee? ....Shall thy wonders be known in the dark? And thy righteousness in the land of forgetfulness?"
Psa. 115:17 "The dead praise not the Lord, neither any that go down into silence."
Eccl. 8:5 "For the living know that they shall die: but the dead know not anything."
Isa. 38:18 "For the grave cannot praise Thee; death cannot celebrate thee."
Dead believers are not in heaven. John, writing after the Lord's ascension, says only Christ is in heaven: John 3:13, "And no man hath ascended up to heaven, but He that came down from heaven, even the Son of man which is in heaven." AV
And further, Peter preaching on the Day of Pentecost about the prophet, David, in Acts 2:34, says, "For David is not ascended into heaven."
It's true, that some NT verses are used to solidify the view that believers will go immediately to be with the Lord upon death. But, IMO, a careful reading of each context, with the literal meanings, will clarify the claims.
Let's look at 2 Cor. 5:8, quoted by rocka21.
First, some background is needed. This is Paul's second letter to the Corinthians. In his first letter he revealed to them many trues, including the Mystery of our being caught away to meet Christ in the air. Why was this a secret? Because, in all of history, everyone died, if they lived long enough, and then they would be resurrected.
But the secret Paul was given was, that when this "rapture" takes place, there will be living believers, members of Christ's body, who will be changed, to put on immortality; and meet the resurrected "dead in Christ" in the air to be with the Lord.
This is what I feel was Paul's greatest hope, for he wrote like this event could happen soon, at least that was his longings.
Starting at 2 Cor. 5:1: Paul likens our earthly body as a tent, while our heavenly one, he likens as a building. Using more metaphors, in verse 2, he likens our body as clothing, earnestly desirng to put on our heavenly clothing. And in verse 3, we read in the AV, "If so be that being clothed we shall not be found naked." Obviously, "to be found naked," means to be dead. We have our earthly body (clothing), and we long for our heavenly body (clothing), so if we are "naked", then we have no body, and so would be dead.
And Paul again in verse 4, tells of his groaning, his longing, not to be unclothed (to die), but to be changed without dying, as he wrote of in his first letter.
He continues on to verse 8, writing of his desire to be present with the Lord: "We are of good courage, and would RATHER be away from the body and at home with the Lord." (Capitals mine for emphasis).
IF, the Lord had come in his time, then Paul would have "put on" heavenly clothing, i.e., a new, spiritual body, as described in 1 Cor. But, since he and many other saints in the church/body of Christ are "asleep", I think it is fair and gracious of the Lord God, that all who make up the body of Christ will be resurrected and those alive changed, and both together meet the Lord in the air at the same time. There are none who are "enjoying the blessings of heaven" ahead of us.
More later, Bick