And there you went subjective. It is fun to read your posts and spot when you go from objective facts to subjective evaluation and interpretation. You seem apparently functionally incapable of spotting that. You take your subjective meaningfulness for granted.
That is because it works for you and you don't have to be self-reflectively aware of it. You haven't learned to use the 5% to spot your subjectivity in this case. I have at least in some cases and I bet you can also do it in other cases. But here you are "blind" to your own subjectivity.
So here are some words for you: Mentalization, meta-cognition and self-reflection. They are also a part of what you speak of and you can learn to spot, who can do that or not, but that requires that you have learned that. You might be able to do this in some cases, but relevant for this you are not capable of it, it would seem.
The 5% can change some behaviors, but that requires that you learn to use them.
That is how cognitive therapy works. You use the 5% to "reprogram" other parts of the 95%. Nice. Now would you please learn that, if you want to claim science.