Nothing wrong with that. Maybe we agree and you did keep the baby and threw out the bathwater.
In a way I suppose. When I dumped religion I kept all the good positive things about myself and let go of all the negative things religion was doing to me.
But I didn't keep any of the actual religion...perhaps not even intentionally. I just simply cannot believe in the things required. It would be nice, for example, to believe when I died I'm going to a wonderful place where all my friends and family will live in peace and harmony for all eternity...but I can't.
Curious if you believe in God, an afterlife and Jesus' spirituality.
No, no, and Jesus is a nice story and some positive lessons can be taken from the Jesus character, but no I don't believe Jesus is alive somewhere waiting to return or anything like that.
I never meant to imply people turn bad when they throw out the baby. But they might have in my opinion a less positive view of the universe and our existence. That it is all random and when we die that is it. More pessimistic in my opinion.
That is indeed your opinion, and on the surface I get it. But what happened to me is, when I stopped believing in afterlife/heaven/hell I actually had a much more positive and optimistic view. Growing up worrying about burning and hell and who wouldn't make it to heaven, and the fact that God sent some people to eternal torturous damnation...it all seemed so very serious and grave. Once I realized we are not bound by such fate, my outlook became much lighter and more universal. We are all brothers and sisters, we are all the same, and we all have one life to live together. 2/3rds of us aren't going to burn in torment like I was taught growing up. We're part of the wonderful universe. I felt heavy under religion, I feel much lighter without it.
People can keep God, Jesus' spirituality and afterlife without the bathwater.
I suppose they can, but it's very tricky. Central to the Jesus story is heaven and hell. I would say the majority of people who call themselves Christian believe in heaven and hell, and in my eyes that's a very heavy burden to live with.
If you want to go so far as to say you're just keeping the most general, figurative ideas of Jesus...just being nice to others, living a good life etc, that's fine I suppose. But I can get those same kinds of lessons from Yoda or nearly any Pixar movie, without all the baggage that come attached to mainstream religious belief.