OK. Perhaps that's a form of intolerance - an intolerance of intolerance. There's a name for that, Popper's Paradox: "The paradox of tolerance states that if a society's practice of tolerance is inclusive of the intolerant, intolerance will ultimately dominate, eliminating the tolerant and the practice of tolerance with them. Karl Popper describes the paradox as arising from the seemingly self-contradictory idea that, in order to maintain a tolerant society, the society must retain the right to be intolerant of intolerance."
There is no intolerance.
intolerance: unwillingness to accept views, beliefs, or behavior that differ from one's own.
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There is only a Baha'i law that states that marriage sex is only allowable between a man and a woman he is married to.
From the Book of Laws, which is the Most Holy Book of the Baha’i Faith:
“The Bahá’í teachings on sexual morality centre on marriage and the family as the bedrock of the whole structure of human society and are designed to protect and strengthen that divine institution. Bahá’í law thus restricts permissible sexual intercourse to that between a man and the woman to whom he is married.”
The Kitáb-i-Aqdas, p. 223
That law only pertains to Baha'is, not to the society at large, and nobody is imposing it on anyone, as it is a choice for a person to become a Baha'i.
I disagree. I think that you limit bigotry to feelings of hatred. There is also something that can be called cold bigotry, which can be well-meaning but misinformed, such as the idea that women are happier without an education and home raising children. That idea might be sincerely believed and constructively offered, but it's still bigotry.
By definition, bigotry is not hatred, although it 'could' lead to hatred, but not necessarily.
Bigotry: obstinate or unreasonable attachment to a belief, opinion, or faction; in particular, prejudice against a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group.
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Bigotry: the fact of having and expressing strong, unreasonable beliefs and disliking other people who have different beliefs or a different way of life:
bigotry
That describes Abrahamic homophobia to me.
But not everyone in an Abrahamic religion is homophobic.
homophobia: dislike of or prejudice against gay people.
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Homophobia encompasses a range of negative attitudes and feelings toward homosexuality or people who are identified or perceived as being lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender (LGBT).
Homophobia - Wikipedia
OK. What you are saying is that not all believers accept the description of unbelievers that the scriptures offer. I agree. The bigots are the ones who accept the message, and there are plenty of them, albeit they generally get it indirectly from their clergy, who like to marginalize and demonize atheists and atheism.
Why do you call those Christians who demonize atheists and atheism bigots?
bigot
a person who is obstinately or
unreasonably attached to a belief, opinion, or faction, especially one who is
prejudiced against or
antagonistic toward a person or people on the basis of their membership of a particular group.
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You promulgate a homophobic message. You believe and teach that your god disapproves of homosexuals.
I do not promulgate a homophobic message. You are taking one Baha'i law and making it into dislike of or prejudice against gay people, but it isn't.
homophobic: having or showing a dislike of or prejudice against gay people.
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God disapproves of ANY sexual behavior out of wedlock, whether it is between heterosexuals or homosexuals.
Bahá’í law restricts permissible sexual intercourse to a man and the woman to whom he is married because, according to Baha'u'llah, the primary purpose of marriage is to rear children, and the family is the bedrock of society.
That's a good god, right - one who is just and loving and fair, right?
Yes it is a good God, one who is just and loving and fair, because people are given a choice. They do not have to choose the Baha'i Faith or any other religion.
Your objection is that you don't feel hatred for homosexuals and resent being included with those who do. I don't see how you have much choice if you don't disavow at least this part of your religious dicta, and though I would love it if you did, I don't expect you to do that just to be separated from the homophobia your faith teaches.
The problem is that you are conflating one Baha'i law with hatred of homosexuals, and such is not the case. Would you say that God hates all people who have sex out of wedlock, most of whom are heterosexuals?
My faith does not teach homophobia. It teaches that we are to love everyone, as God does.
homophobia: dislike of or prejudice against gay people.
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OK. But you also believe that they are unnatural and in defiance of the laws of a good god, do you not? That probably creates a bit of cognitive dissonance for you. You want to love homosexuals and feel no malice for them, but your god says they're sinners (or whatever the Baha'i equivalent of that language is), so you aren't free to disagree like unbelievers who feel just like you do.
Admittedly, I do believe it is unnatural, but they are not in defiance of God's laws unless they belong to a religion that has that law.
It creates no cognitive dissonance because I can separate a person from his or her sexual behavior, and it is not my job to judge anyone's behavior except my own. The sexual behavior of other people is none of my business.
God says
we are all sinners, and homosexuality is just one behavior that can be considered a sin. Fornication is no different, it is a sin.
Thats intolerance to you? I think you might be misunderstanding the definition you cited. Accept has two meanings, just like respect, one weaker and one stronger. Accept can mean to embrace, like accepting Jesus into one's heart, but it can also mean forbearance, which means to accept the legitimacy of others holding opinions with which one disagrees and not act against them.
intolerance: unwillingness to accept views, beliefs, or behavior that differ from one's own.
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Tolerance (not intolerance) can also mean forbearance, which means to accept the legitimacy of others holding opinions with which one disagrees and not act against them. I am not intolerant since I have tolerance.
tolerate
- allow the existence, occurrence, or practice of (something that one does not necessarily like or agree with) without interference.
- accept or endure (someone or something unpleasant or disliked) with forbearance.
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