Regarding the red, what do you call what causes you to believe in God then? Did you use reason? Did you use metaphysical, empirical or otherwise objective evidence?
I would say that I chose to believe in God; I take God as an axiom. This is not just hanging out there in space, but based upon personal experience. I have always felt what I refer to now as the More, and I have had specific experiences where I feel like God is putting what I need right before me and experiences that seem more like the experience of a presence, a comfort or a strength, and experiences where I feel I have been called and/or given direction. I have also been been blessed with much needed assistance in a time of difficulty that I attribute to help from God. I don't usually feel a need to discuss these things because I know very well that there are alternative explanations and my subjective experience is not going to be compelling to others.
Along with this, I believe my life to have meaning, and that all life has inherent value. I think it is reasonable to accept that there is 'something' more than will ever be scientifically measurable or accessible to human inquiry; in short that there is something 'super' (beyond) - natural. And a little more 'out there' as a hypothesis, I think it is reasonable to consider that we are conscious, sentient, intelligent beings because there is a pre-existing pattern that molds us toward consciousness, sentience and intelligence.
I don't object to giving someone "the benefit of the doubt" to behave in a certain way; such as having faith a superior officer will guide you skillfully (unless you have many reasons to doubt it), or having faith that you can loan a friend $10 or faith that a friend won't betray you. Most of those are based on reason/induction/inference anyway.
But I am not talking about having faith in people. I was just saying that when it comes to relationships with people, I don't use a scientific approach. I know some people will go so far as to say that love is just a neuro-physiological reaction honed by evolution for the preservation of our species, but even if I agree with that to a large extent, my relationships with people are much more than that. And I'm pretty willing to bet that even those who will claim that all that all of our relationships etc. can all be explained by social dynamics and evolutionary psychology etc. will not be asking their girlfriends for genetic tests before getting engaged. So, is this love reasonable or are we being irrational when we have relationships not based upon optimal conditions for the survival of our species?
This has nothing to do with faith. It is just to illustrate that we don't base many of the most important aspects of our lives on objective evidence and logic.
What I object to, and I think others like mball object to, is this notion of believing in the existence of something without solid justification (be it metaphysical, empirical, or otherwise objective).
Well, existence is strange stuff. I'm not sure God is stuff, although I believe that God is real. I think one can choose to believe that God is real in the same way we can choose to believe that it is good to be good, even when we know that goodness is not a value that can arise from nature if nature has no purpose or meaning.