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What is immoral about casual and friendly sex between adults?

thomas t

non-denominational Christian
If I am unconscious and dying from blood loss
then I call the ambulance.
They go to hospital and they will decide there what to do next,
I'm not a doctor. Only doctors can review the situation right.
Before starting to even think of scenarios you presented... in practice it's better to call the ambulance.
 

ppp

Well-Known Member
I'm convinced that the donor and the patient had been informed about which rights were included in the agreement

There is not an agreement between the patient and the donor. The patient absolutely no say in what the donor decides and any point in the process. No one does.

I'm convinced that the donor and the patient had been informed about which rights were included in the agreement and which rights were not.
This is what you seem to forget, but if you claim otherwise... if you claim that the donor drew back despite having signed a treaty disallowing them from withdrawing... please back it up providing clear sources.
I think that you may have forgotten that we are talking about morality, not legality. We are not talking about whether the do not has the legal right to with draw, but whether they have the moral right to do so.
 

thomas t

non-denominational Christian
There is not am agreement between the patient and the donor. The patient absolutely no say in what the donor decides and any point in the process. No one does.
that wasn't my point. My point was that the patient agrees to the whole procedure. Including their lack of rights.
The patient agrees beforehand.
Abortion is different. No unborn life agrees to anything coming close to an abortion.
 

ppp

Well-Known Member
then I call the ambulance.
Every year, people around here die from blood loss after being injured during a hurricane. Power is out. Roads are flooded. Winds are high. Phones may either be out or overloaded. You don't always get to call an ambulance.

But then you know that. You are simply trying to avoid acknowledging that you are not morally obligated to provide your body to support another person. And you are not morally obligated to continue bodily support once started.
 

ppp

Well-Known Member
that wasn't my point. My point was that the patient agrees to the whole procedure.
And my point is that the patient does not always get to consent. Unconscious people cannot consent. Infants cannot consent. And that the person providing bodily support is not obligated to provide support, or to continue doing so once support has begun.
 

thomas t

non-denominational Christian
But then you know that. You are simply trying to avoid acknowledging that you are not morally obligated to provide your body to support another person. And you are not morally obligated to continue bodily support once started.
I would never ever start my personal blood donation on the street.
That's insane, in my view. I have no idea whatsoever how I should proceed. Seeking medical health personnal would always be my first step. This is also to protect the other person from potentially flawed decisions I could make, of course. I'm no health professional.
And my point is that the patient does not always get to consent. Unconscious people cannot consent. Infants cannot consent. And that the person providing bodily support is not obligated to provide support, or to continue doing so once support has begun.
you started off with your neighbor. An adult - a consenting adult.
I'm not going to think every single scenario through that you may be going to come up with.
This being said, let's still have a look at your two new scenarios. Maybe, if they are unconscious they will agree with the doctor's decisions afterwards. Infants later agree with their parent's decisions if they survive this. That's what parents are there for. They need to take the best decision's at their children's place.

Three more scenarios and then I will opt out of this debate here. I also have other things to do, Joe.
 

ppp

Well-Known Member
But then you know that. You are simply trying to avoid acknowledging that you are not morally obligated to provide your body to support another person. And you are not morally obligated to continue bodily support once started.

I would never ever start my personal blood donation on the street.
Ok. You have gone fully evasive. This is like when people try to defend slavery in the blble. They will say anything to avoid the issue that God endorsed slavery.
Later.
 

thomas t

non-denominational Christian
You have gone fully evasive
ah no.
You wrote:
Every year, people around here die from blood loss after being injured during a hurricane. Power is out. Roads are flooded. Winds are high. Phones may either be out or overloaded. You don't always get to call an ambulance.

But then you know that. You are simply trying to avoid acknowledging that you are not morally obligated to provide your body to support another person. And you are not morally obligated to continue bodily support once started.
I replied:
I would never ever start my personal blood donation on the street.
That's insane, in my view. I have no idea whatsoever how I should proceed. Seeking medical health personnal would always be my first step. This is also to protect the other person from potentially flawed decisions I could make, of course. I'm no health professional.
 

ppp

Well-Known Member
Ah yes.

You are simply trying to avoid acknowledging that you are not morally obligated to provide your body to support another person. And that you are not morally obligated to continue bodily support once started.
 

Watchmen

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
You added derogatory scenarios twice, why should a mutually willing agreement require you to input deliberately degrading characters in an attempt to discredit the intention of the OP

Considering the hate that comes from your comments i can only assume the worst intentions.
It’s not discrediting. It’s not hate. It’s demonstrating the potential for immorality even if two people consent. Do you disagree?
 

McBell

Unbound
It’s not discrediting. It’s not hate. It’s demonstrating the potential for immorality even if two people consent. Do you disagree?
Is it safe to assume you do not find it immoral and thus you have to add immorality to it in order to declare it immoral?

Cause that is exactly what you seem to be doing.
 

Watchmen

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
Is it safe to assume you do not find it immoral and thus you have to add immorality to it in order to declare it immoral?

Cause that is exactly what you seem to be doing.
The op by itself is of course not immoral. Obviously so. So I added an additional element to make it interesting. Unfortunately, some snowflakes couldn’t handle it.
 

thomas t

non-denominational Christian
I don't think that I have gone fully evasive.
Your point was about an emergency. I said, in an emergency I would call the ambulance.
In stormy weather when my cell phone does not work, I would refrain from starting a blood transfusion on my own without hygiene standards and knowledge. This is something I reserve for medical health staff.
You are simply trying to avoid acknowledging that you are not morally obligated to provide your body to support another person.
I never claimed otherwise.
And that you are not morally obligated to continue bodily support once started.
The point is: the patient agrees beforehand that the donor may stop anytime. Both donor and patient agree to the rules of the procedure, before it even gets started.

Look, this is going round and round in circles. Can we stop here? I still have other things to do.



Prove [that unborn life does not agree to anything close to abortion]
before I start ...let me add to my point: unborn life doesn not agree in a way that you can discern to anything coming close to its death.
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
It’s not discrediting. It’s not hate. It’s demonstrating the potential for immorality even if two people consent. Do you disagree?

The OP specifically mentioned "adults".

There is nothing immoral about honest sex between consenting adults. Do you not agree?
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
The OP specifically mentioned "adults".
There is nothing immoral about honest sex between consenting adults. Do you not agree?
No. The situation needs clarification. Are both the participating adults unencumbered? Are they unmarried? If married, do they have permission of their spouses? Otherwise whoever has not is committing a breach of trust. Such act may impinge on the relationship of those who are married. It may lead to divorce. It will impinge on the welfare of their children. What kind of example these people will be putting up before their families or society? There are many more questions like this, and I can continue, but I hope you get my drift. Whether they are adults or not, it is best to remain within the bound of family and society. I would not term it as moral. This is because of my orthodoxy, age and culture, but I do not regret them. :)
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
No. The situation needs clarification. Are both the participating adults unencumbered? Are they unmarried? If married, do they have permission of their spouses? Otherwise whoever has not is committing a breach of trust. Such act may impinge on the relationship of those who are married. It may lead to divorce. It will impinge on the welfare of their children. What kind of example these people will be putting up before their families or society? There are many more questions like this, and I can continue, but I hope you get my drift. Whether they are adults or not, it is best to remain within the bound of family and society. I would not term it as moral. This is because of my orthodoxy, age and culture, but I do not regret them. :)

I specifically stated honest. If you look earlier on in this thread you will see that i have a strong objection to cheating.

As to family example, my kids have 2 fathers, my husband of more than 25 years, and their biological father. There are no issues in our case, others may find it a problem, here honesty is key.

Society can suite its self, a persons sex life is nothing to do with society.

I will repeat, there is nothing immoral about honest sex between consenting adults.
 

Watchmen

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
The OP specifically mentioned "adults".

There is nothing immoral about honest sex between consenting adults. Do you not agree?
I do agree, and it’s obvious. That’s why I changed the fact pattern. To have a discussion about something not so obvious. Get it now? It’s not bigotry. It’s not hatred.
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
I do agree, and it’s obvious. That’s why I changed the fact pattern. To have a discussion about something not so obvious. Get it now? It’s not bigotry. It’s not hatred.

If you say so,

So trying to derail the thread was you motive?
 
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