ratiocinator
Lightly seared on the reality grill.
What is the scientific definition of time?
Time, a measured or measurable period, a continuum that lacks spatial dimensions.
You still can't have a measurement unless there is something that is being measured.
still not a force or substance
Nobody said it was.
it's just in your head
Not according to the evidence. You can stamp your foot as hard as you like, the evidence isn't going away.
The best description we have comes from general relativity:
"General relativity is a metric theory of gravitation. At its core are Einstein's equations, which describe the relation between the geometry of a four-dimensional pseudo-Riemannian manifold representing spacetime, and the energy–momentum contained in that spacetime."
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From: General relativity - Wikipedia
There is copious evidence that general relativity is a very good model of space-time and gravity.