Absolutely.
IS he the ONLY begotten son of GOd?
Yes He is.
Do you belief that God (not JEsus) is or once was a man of flesh and bone?
Yes, we believe that God has a body of flesh and bone.
OR do you belief he is something more?
That shouldn't be "or"; it should be "and." While God has a physical body of flesh and bone, that is definitely not
all He is. He is the archetypal man, celestial, glorious beyond description, immortal, perfect in every conceivable way, all-knowing, all-powerful, loving, merciful and just, the Father of the spirits of all of His creations and their Maker.
IF you think God was a man....then you have a big issue with Christianity....and Judaism.
I have no "issues" with Christianity, as I am a Christian. I have no issues with Judaism, either, as I believe the the Bible teaches that the children of Israel are God's chosen people.
Do you believe that baptism should happen when you accept Christ as your savior or do you believe it's something you can do after you are already dead?
I believe that baptism is something we do when we want to enter into a covenant relationship with our Savior, Jesus Christ. Of course, that requires that we be taught about Jesus Christ and His gospel. Billions have lived and died without having had that opportunity.
IF it's something you believe you can do after you are dead.....big issues with you and Christianity.
It would be pretty hard for someone to be baptized when his is lying "six feet under," since baptism requires that we be immersed in water. That's why proxy baptisms are performed. It's something the living can do for their deceased ancestors. The "dead," whose spirits, of course, are eternal, cognizant beings can choose to either accept or reject that baptism. With respect to this doctrine, I have no issues with Christianity of the first century, only with those who changed its doctrines over the many centuries which followed.
How many Gods are there? Smith says that God became god the same way that God's before him became God.....so what is this process?
Yes, he did say that. It is something he believed, but it is not part of our official canon. We are free to either believe it or not, as we wish. At any rate, if God became God at some point, it would have been long before the events described in the Bible took place, before the clock started ticking, so to speak.
BTW Christianity says there is but ONE God.
Paul actually taught that "For though there be that are called gods, whether in heaven or in earth, (as there be gods many, and lords many,) But to us there is but one God, the Father, of whom are all things, and we in him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, by whom are all things, and we by him." That pretty much is how we would explain it, too.
So again....Mormonism is not harmonious with Christianity.
Christianity is the belief in Jesus Christ, the Only Begotten Son of God, in His atoning sacrifice for the salvation of mankind and for His resurrection, ensuring that all will live again. That's the foundation upon which Christianity is built. It's the foundation upon which The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is built.
By the way, RC, were you raised Catholic, prior to your becoming an atheist? I'm just curious.