Namaste
For a while I have been "secretive" (or shy, perhaps?) about my own personal "Hindu-isms"
* My family and relatives all have been given instruction that my ashes are to be cast into the Ganga at Manikarnika in Kashi (Varanasi, India). I have this in writing..... snip... I have a fund set aside to pay for courier of my ashes to India by relative(s).
* This has already been mentioned, but I like the smell of incense and I like to put vibhuti on my forehead and like the perfume smell of vibhuti (I even keep a small vile of vibhuti in my car "just in case").
Om Namah Sivaya
Thanks for sharing all this. I rarely share much as 'the secret is sacred, and sacred is secret' mantra is perhaps too fully engrained.
The idea of having stuff in writing is really important. My ashes will be taken to a river flowing into the Pacific, most likely the Frazer. I tried to keep it simple for the kids. I actually believe the consciousness of east and west are reversing. The east is becoming westernised, and the west is growing eastern. How long this will continue or any timeline, I'm not sure. So I'll be taking my chances in the west. Any new monastics entering the order I am familiar with seem to all come from the west. The east has lost some of its mysticism, and is turning into an intellectual cesspool of argument.
Yes, vibhuti is wonderful stuff, although I don't keep any in the car.