What makes somebody attractive?

[blackout]

Well I'd like to think so, but tattoos, piercings and leather jackets don't usually appeal to romantic girls. Having said that, the best valentines gift I ever got was a black rose. I loved that.

Personally I don't have a particular "look" so long as whatever style a girl has is her own. I tend to go out with mosher/punk girls a lot mostly, because of shared music taste, but I recently went out with a Muslim girl who adored RnB. It really doesn't matter to me what a person likes as long as they genuinely do what THEY want and not what other people expect of them.
If a girl has something a little unusual about her, that catches my eye too. One girl I find quite attractive, but is unavailable is kind of a typical geeky girl. Very shy, very well spoken, not very outgoing, but it somehow works for her. I have a few friends who share a flat with her and she came into the living room with us for a while. She didn't have a drink so I offered her one of my beers and she said, "Oh yes, that would be absolutely lovely, thankyou." Now that kind of charm might not be appealing to some of my friends, but for me it made her a hell of a lot more attractive because it was a little different.
Basically I think that as long as somebody has their own style and pulls it off, I find them attractive. Airheads and sheep do nothing for me.

I get that.

I totally agree with your last two lines there.
Well said.

 

[Erebus]

Do I have a match? :flirt:

It looks that way
I have a Manchester accent though, so yes it is English but it's nowt like Pierce Brosnan :sorry1:

I do own a top hat and an antique walking cane though, so maybe I still count as a "proud bloody Englishman"

 

[blackout]

Which doesn't make sense to me from that evolutionary perspective that deals with reproduction. Women are said to be attracted to men based on the kind of offspring they want but I don't understand this fascination with boobs and arse that men have. Women are much more psychological when it comes to attraction.



Like I said, women are much more psychological. Woman also love to be wanted. To be honest, I am not entirely sure of why confidence is so attractive but I can guess based on my own feelings or reactions to such people. For instance, a confident person is also a strong person. They have a certain air of power to them and a woman could easily feel secure with a person who exudes that kind of confidence (again, different from arrogance). A confident person is also likely to be a good emotional supporter and great role model (for children). The idea of being wanted or accepted by someone with great confidence makes me feel a lot better about myself and also ups my self esteem. A confident person has less inhibitions and is thus more exciting, especially in a sexual context . Many women like the idea of a dominant male and a male with confidence represents a kind of dominance. A dominant man knows what he wants and will probably get it

These are the main reasons I can think of at the moment.

I like confidence in both men AND women.

It's very important to me also.
Confidence is empowering.
TRUE confidence is the emulation of Self.

OOhhh... and I am very fascinated with boobs and arse mySelf. :flirt:

 

[blackout]

It looks that way
I have a Manchester accent though, so yes it is English but it's nowt like Pierce Brosnan :sorry1:

I do own a top hat and an antique walking cane though, so maybe I still count as a "proud bloody Englishman"

Nice!



(smart young man said nothing about me being old....)

 

[Madhuri]

I like confidence in both men AND women.

It's very important to me also.
Confidence is empowering.
TRUE confidence is the emulation of Self.

OOhhh... and I am very fascinated with boobs and arse mySelf. :flirt:

Of course of course, I only mentioned men specifically because of my own orientation. I have only ever been fascinated with my own boobs and arse...but not in an asexual way

 

[Erebus]

(smart young man said nothing about me being old....)

Everybody knows it's improper to mention the age of a lady, especially when time has sharpened her mind and left her beauty unmarked... I am a gentleman you know

 

[Aquitaine]

Everybody knows it's improper to mention the age of a lady, especially when time has sharpened her mind and left her beauty unmarked... I am a gentleman you know

My God! Gentlemen in the UK, that's a rare sight nowadays! I'm pretty sure your species nearly died out like a decade ago or so, you're lucky to survive the Gentolocaust! ^_^

 

[Aquitaine]

Now that kind of charm might not be appealing to some of my friends, but for me it made her a hell of a lot more attractive because it was a little different.

Y' know, I feel kinda similar. Although I'm not interested in people on an intimate level, I still feel well when I come across a charming girl. In both personality, body language and other things etc. You just don't see it anymore nowadays.

It used to be Ladies & Gentlemen, now it's Lads & Ladettes. All the girls I hang out are pretty much nearly all ladettes and heavy bingers - but then again most guys I hang out with are too!

I guess British Culture has taken a completely new direction. Don't get me wrong, 90% of the time I'm against the idea of Cultural "tradition", but honestly I think in many places in the UK atleast, it's changed for all the wrong reasons, innit blad.

 

[Erebus]

My God! Gentlemen in the UK, that's a rare sight nowadays! I'm pretty sure your species nearly died out like a decade ago or so, you're lucky to survive the Gentolocaust! ^_^

I was one of the lucky few who realised that tracksuits, gold chains and gangsta rap are all just plain awful

I guess British Culture has taken a completely new direction. Don't get me wrong, 90% of the time I'm against the idea of Cultural "tradition", but honestly I think in many places in the UK atleast, it's changed for all the wrong reasons, innit blad.

Agreed. While it's good that people aren't nearly as restricted in their lives, far too many people have shown a completely immature attitude to their freedoms.

 

[Alusky]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
:wolf:
Nothing more attractive than a husky with a nice perk up tail a nice color fur pattern and a good looking face with beautiful blue eyes.