Sgt. Pepper
All you need is love.
@Trailblazer, I think you should post your jokes about the Bahá'í in heaven here in your thread. I like those jokes.
Welcome to Religious Forums, a friendly forum to discuss all religions in a friendly surrounding.
Your voice is missing! You will need to register to get access to the following site features:We hope to see you as a part of our community soon!
*WINNER*I certainly did not choose to stay in the living hell I was in while I grew up in an abusive home. I was trapped, and no one helped me. I could have run away, and I did once when I was 14 years old, but I was eventually found hours later and brought back to my living hell prison. I was never punished for running away because the police were involved, and my parents didn't want the police to get suspicious and call CPS if they saw any bruises on me. My parents made up some cockamamie story about how we had argued the night before and I ran away because I was upset about it. I think what also saved my neck is that I went along with their story, pretended to be sorry, apologized, and pretended as if my parents were the best parents in the world and I was their stubborn and rebellious daughter. I had suicidal thoughts when I was a teenager, but I didn't have the nerve to go through with ending my life.
I might do that later since it is very much related to my OP. What will heaven be like?@Trailblazer, I think you should post your jokes about the Bahá'í in heaven here in your thread. I like those jokes.
If you think it is sad why don't you try to help them?I think it’s sad when people are unhappy. You’re entitled to your belief
You did.Who said anything about unhappy anyway
No I didn’t see post 35 and 36You did.
You said: "I think it’s sad when people are unhappy."
There is much more to this life than material happiness. Life is a spiritual thing and you can find spiritual happiness even in this fleeting life.I'm sorry, but I don't believe that because the evidence shows that some people cannot find happiness.
So if you say to those people that they can find happiness that is as much as saying that it is their fault that they are not happy. That is judgmental.
Unless you have walked in their moccasins you cannot understand what another person has gone through or is going through now.
The difference between me and you is that I don't call anything in this life heaven, because it is not heaven, it is earth.
Earthly life cannot be heaven because it is earth.
This is not about impossible-to-reach expectations and then being disappointed. All people do not find happiness in this life, and even if they do, if it is material happiness it is fleeting becaue it is destined to end. If they find spiritual happiness that is different because that does not end.
People don't choose to be unhappy, you're right. But people can choose to be happy. Not necessarily happy every second of every day, but choose to live in happiness and make the most of life regardless of what has been lost.That is not a choice and it is cruel and insensitive to say such a thing, as well as ignorant. People do not choose to be unhappy, that is so short-sighted. A friend of mine lost his wife of 46 years last summer and he also has other struggles in his life, none of which he has any control over. None of this was chosen. To tell a person who is suffering that they can 'choose' to be happy is ludicrous because feelings just are. They can do certain things to try to ameliorate their suffering but that doesn't always work.
I would agree that we shouldn't be attached to anything in life, including religion.The way I interpret those verses is that if we love this life so much that we live only for the things of this world then we lose eternal life, which is nearness to God, because all we think about are the things of this world (eat, drink, and be merry) and we lose sight of God.
That does not literally mean we should hate this life and not enjoy what there is in this life to enjoy, it only means that we should not be so attached to life in this world that we lose sight of God.
I am not telling you that you should hate your life. Unless you believe in God and an afterlife there is no reason why you would choose to live as these verses say.
There is no claim of truth in what follows. I sometimes enjoy playing around with ideas.Why would a belief cause heaven to be what it will be?
there will be no time as we know it in this world
Isn't that what you were doing instead of answering my question? I grew tired of you. Just tell me what evidence you have since that's what you claimed. I'd like to hear about it. The irony in your comment that I can't have evidence, but you can, is nauseating.And you love to deflect.
How can you have evidence of something that does not exist?
No I didn’t see post 35 and 36
I agree.There is much more to this life than material happiness. Life is a spiritual thing and you can find spiritual happiness even in this fleeting life.
Some people can, some people can't. Most people can make the most of life regardless of what has been lost, but that does not mean they will be happy. People usually adjust to a loss of a loved one slowly over time, and thye find things to be happy about, but it can take a long time.People don't choose to be unhappy, you're right. But people can choose to be happy. Not necessarily happy every second of every day, but choose to live in happiness and make the most of life regardless of what has been lost.
I agree, even about the religion.I would agree that we shouldn't be attached to anything in life, including religion.
I think there might be some truth to creating your own heaven wen you are in heaven, from some of the renditions of the afterlife I have read about.There is no claim of truth in what follows. I sometimes enjoy playing around with ideas.
If the afterlife is a place of some kind of energy, that could very well be true. It may be that the spirit beings can actually shape the energy into a more solid form, each person, or group of people, creating their own version of "heaven". This was set out in What Dreams May Come, the book and the movie. In the movie, the Robin Williams character finds himself in what is a like a huge painting. There's a conversation (I'm doing this from memory) where he asks a visitor something about the environment he is in and the answer is something like "Don't ask me, you created it".
I think there will be some kind of time, but it won't be like the time we experience on this earth, as it is measured by the sun.Do you have any idea what you mean by that? I'm not debating just interested. I hear that lot, but it seems to me that time is needed for anything to happen at all. When we move, for example, we are experiencing a series of changes to the world that need duration to exist. All kinds of variations are possible I suppose, like time moving faster or slower, but it it would not be apparent to the person experiencing it. Any thoughts?
I will answer your question, but you should also answer my question.Isn't that what you were doing instead of answering my question? I grew tired of you. Just tell me what evidence you have since that's what you claimed. I'd like to hear about it. The irony in your comment that I can't have evidence, but you can, is nauseating.
Is there more than one?Which heaven are we talking about?
It can be on Earth, if you are close to God, in my opinion.Heaven is on Earth, its form is whatever gives you peace of mind and bliss.
If they choose to be far from God, then yes.That's because they choose to stay in Hell.
Again, no proof. The usual Abrahamic tactics. Trying to frighten a hard atheist with silly threats. Two silly quotes in bargain.You will have your proof as soon as you die and realize YOU are not dead.
A counselor who believes in heaven or hell, and God's wrath, will be a disaster.It's a good thing you are not a counselor.