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What women want in a man

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Seen enough, learned enough.

As someone with her degree in counseling with a focus on couples and family and in two active relationships, I can't even.

Granted I'm just a simple hustler from the street, but this is APPLIED knowledge, not something you paid way too much money to learn in some classroom
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
I'm sure you have skills, peacemaker lol But...no two women are alike, and I cringe ever so slightly when I see men act like they know how to attract all da womenz. ^_^

I dated a guy about two years ago and he'd say things like ...''I hate when women do ...'' or ''You women are all alike...'' or ''I wish women would tell men what they want...''

Needless to say, that was a short lived relationship. :D
 

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
I'm sure you have skills, peacemaker lol But...no two women are alike, and I cringe ever so slightly when I see men act like they know how to attract all da womenz. ^_^

I dated a guy about two years ago and he'd say things like ...''I hate when women do ...'' or ''You women are all alike...'' or ''I wish women would tell men what they want...''

Needless to say, that was a short lived relationship. :D

And yet, reading through this thread, it's as if the same narrative is played out over and over again. :D
 

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
What if I changed my advice to "this is how to attract people"? Would that taste better going down?

First, you are just full of double entendres, aren't you? LOL

Second, if we were to apply that advice to both threads, I might consider it more.
 

Deidre

Well-Known Member
If you want to talk about love advice this would be the better thread to do it in. Let's not derail this one from letting the ladies share what they want.

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lmao!!

tomorrow, I may just have to venture into that thread...
for laughs of course
^_^

As if all men have hidden powers that will put all of us womenz under their spellzzzzzzzz.........
smiley_disappear.gif
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
First, you are just full of double entendres, aren't you? LOL

Second, if we were to apply that advice to both threads, I might consider it more.

I have a sales background. My job is to read people and know what they're looking for and what they need to hear. I'm also very likeable in the real world. I know how to win people over to my side. Make no mistake about it, in many ways people are all the same. Triggering the responses I'm looking for in a person regardless of gender becomes redundant as the process of getting the person to that point doesn't change. It shouldn't surprise you that I say "all women". I'm speaking about the commonalities that all women share though perhaps more precisely I could say "all people". I've just never worked my charms on a man before. I don't see any reason why it wouldn't work on anybody. I also just have more fun talking about women than men. I still believe in general a man is easier to seduce though :D
 
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Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
put me to the test. Let's have some fun. Ask me something about relationships
Well, at least you didn't call anyone arrogant this time.
If you want to talk about love advice this would be the better thread to do it in. Let's not derail this one from letting the ladies share what they want.

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.....and now you make our forum look like a crappy late night infomercial for guys who are desperate and have low self esteem.
 

MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
I have a sales background. My job is to read people and know what they're looking for and what they need to hear. I'm also very likeable in the real world. I know how to win people over to my side. Make no mistake about it, in many ways people are all the same. Triggering the responses I'm looking for in a person regardless of gender becomes redundant as the process of getting the person to that point doesn't change. It shouldn't surprise you that I say "all women". I'm speaking about the commonalities that all women share though perhaps more precisely I could say "all people". I've just never worked my charms on a man before. I don't see any reason why it wouldn't work on anybody. I also just have more fun talking about women than men. I still believe in general a man is easier to seduce though :D

How many times is this at this point? Where a thread about what women want in a man is taken back to being about you?

C'mon, now.
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
How many times is this at this point? Where a thread about what women want in a man is taken back to being about you?

C'mon, now.

Mystic, do you believe in a set of general principles pertaining to attraction that we could say all people respond to? Sure there's alot we differ about. Some ladies want guys that can talk about books or music. Some want a guy with a great sense of humor, but what about the things that women or perhaps even all people have in common when it comes to looking for a mate? I believe women are attracted to genuine confidence in oneself and that they desperately want to be treated with love and respect. I believe a man should genuinely love female companionship. I believe women need to be made to feel safe for emotional intimacy to thrive and that men should be far better listeners than speakers. Is this true all of the time? Will there be exceptions? Probably but as general principles relating to people it works. I can be bold and brash but this has been the heart of my message. Maybe it would be easier to swallow if I said "this is what women respond to" as opposed to "this is what women need" because I can promise you they respond to it. When the word "need" gets used people tend to get a little defensive as in general they don't want to be told what they need. They know what they need and they certainly don't want to be told by someone else.
 
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MysticSang'ha

Big Squishy Hugger
Premium Member
Mystic, do you believe in a set of general principles pertaining to attraction that we could say all people respond to? Sure there's alot we differ about. Some ladies want guys that can talk about books or music. Some want a guy with a great sense of humor, but what about the things that women or perhaps even all people have in common when it comes to looking for a mate? I believe women are attracted to genuine confidence in oneself and that they desperately want to be treated with love and respect. I believe a man should genuinely love female companionship. I believe women need to be made to feel safe for emotional intimacy to thrive and that men should be far better listeners than speakers. Is this true all of the time? Will there be exceptions? Probably but as general principles relating to people it works. I can be bold and brash but this has been the heart of my message

Yes everyone here is fully aware of what you think. There are many posts here that are all about what you think. In fact, what you think is more represented in this thread about what women want than what women have actually been saying.

It hasn't been productive.
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Yes everyone here is fully aware of what you think. There are many posts here that are all about what you think. In fact, what you think is more represented in this thread about what women want than what women have actually been saying.

It hasn't been productive.

my apologies. Let's let the women have their say. :D
 

-Peacemaker-

.45 Cal
Drofille, considering you're in two relationships I'd be damn curious to know what you're looking for in a mate. If you've already posted it and it's buried here in this thread could you tell me where it is?
 
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