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When you ask me to "open my heart and pray..."? [Question to believers]

DavidFirth

Well-Known Member
Well, yes, in my OP I only addressed christians, because those are the ones I meet who use that line. But I'm open to any believer who uses similar lines with nonbelievers, because I think the underlying issues are always the same.

With the following quotes I run into the very same issue every single time...







Now, of course, my original question was "What do you imagine that I do?" In a way, that question was answered: You imagine that I can do "with sincerety", what you do all the time, based on your faith.

But please bear in mind that I lack that faith.

So the question arises: How would I "sincerely lift my hands up to god"? If I lift my hands up, to me there is only sky above, since I do not believe that god exists. So, apart from a somewhat awkward feeling, nothing happens (I just tried it). So how can I *sincerely* lift my hands to god? How can I "ask Jesus" who, from my point of view, died and rotted and never came back?

Quite literally, I do not see any way that I could fulfill those requests.

So, do you imagine that I really CAN talk to god with sincerety, even though for me he doesn't exist? Or do you imagine that it doesn't matter whether that act is sincere or not?

If you lack any faith that God might exist, how can you ask us how you are supposed to pray to Him?
 

DavidFirth

Well-Known Member
I tried it with every ounce of sincerity and openness I could muster.

Nothing happened.

What were you expecting to happen? Do you think we believe that God is our servant who will just make things happen the way we want immediately? That's not how it works and I think you know that.
 

Polymath257

Think & Care
Staff member
Premium Member
What were you expecting to happen? Do you think we believe that God is our servant who will just make things happen the way we want immediately? That's not how it works and I think you know that.

OK, so what *should* we expect? If someone opens up with all sincerity and an open heart and nothing happens, is that a refutation of your position? if not, what *would* be?
 

MJFlores

Well-Known Member
Sometimes in religious debates, christians will ask atheists such as myself to just "open my heart, let Jesus in, and pray that he reveal himself to me".

That makes me wonder: Assuming that I were to follow your kind advice -- what exactly is it you imagine that I do? How would I go about doing that?

Romans 10:14-15

How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can anyone preach unless they are sent? As it is written: “How beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news!”

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That's in the bible.

First, God should sent someone to preach. These preachers should have proof that they are sent. Hence "And how can anyone preach unless they are sent?"

Second, people should hear what these preachers are preaching.

Third, after the people heard comes believing.

Fourth, after believing comes calling or praying.

You just can't pray to Lord God and the Lord Jesus Christ without believing.
 

Milton Platt

Well-Known Member
Ok good questions. Muslims generally don't go down this path, they merely tell people about Islam, and then let God guide them. I personally do things differently:

Stage 1: If someone is sincere in seeking answers, then I will explain the basics of why Islam makes more sense than the other Abrahamic faiths.

Stage 2: I will then proceed to help open a direct connection between the seeker and ultimate truth.

What will the prayer achieve?

Stage 3: It will allow your heart to be gripped and your soul will 100% remember what happened before it entered your body at the 6 weeks mark in your mother's womb or test tube as the case maybe.

The heart is just a muscle that pumps blood.
 

Electra

Active Member
Find space to yourself, breathe fully, sit in stillness for a while.
Begin to feel into your body, (if you wish to touch yourself in some way ;p, send the breath to that area)
Notice what you feel, notice what you have come to pray about, dig deeper, feel the emotion behind the words.
Why do I want this? How would I feel if this is completed? feel that, start talking to yourself like it is already done.
Remember how powerful you are, change starts with you and you can do anything you put your mind to.

Since you asked this you must have some curiosity. All benevolent beings need is permission to help you. They do no need you to 'believe in them' they know they exist... lol. You can say 'I give permission for benevolent beings to help me achieve my prayers and let themselves be known' If you want to be more specific to 'jesus' you can say 'Christ consciousness'
remember that sometimes it is just a thought you may think is your own, a bodily sensation/feeling or a synchronistic moment,

mmmmmhhmm
 
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A Vestigial Mote

Well-Known Member
Muslims, note that the OP is addressing Christians. He is not asking you anything.
It's quite obvious that he was asking anyone who might use the "open your heart" instruction as a prescription for advancement into... well, I don't even really know what to call it, actually. Since you have to be "sincere" in the plea to begin with, that implies that you already believe, or that you at least firmly grasp the idea that the deities you're reaching out to plausibly exist. Maybe it is the prescription for gaining God's acceptance? Is that what "opening your heart" and praying to receive God's guidance does?

Sorry, you probably can't understand me again.
 

Muslim-UK

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
well, I don't even really know what to call it, actually. Since you have to be "sincere" in the plea to begin with, that implies that you already believe, or that you at least firmly grasp the idea that the deities you're reaching out to plausibly exist.
Yes this is correct, you have to use your faculties to conclude there must be some invisible force behind all the wonders of the World and Universe.

We will show them Our signs in the horizons and within themselves until it becomes clear to them that it is the truth. But is it not sufficient concerning your Lord that He is, over all things, a Witness? Qur'an 41:53

Then with sincerity seek guidance to find the right path.
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
Yes this is correct, you have to use your faculties to conclude there must be some invisible force behind all the wonders of the World and Universe.

We will show them Our signs in the horizons and within themselves until it becomes clear to them that it is the truth. But is it not sufficient concerning your Lord that He is, over all things, a Witness? Qur'an 41:53

Then with sincerity seek guidance to find the right path.
Hehehe. It might be simpler to just go with suspension of disbelief as we all do while reading a novel. If we don't pretend the storyline is somewhat real, the story cannot work properly.

Suspension of disbelief - Wikipedia

Likewise, if one does not employ suspension of disbelief one cannot enjoy a lot of Hollywood movies or television programs. In other words, pretend it's real and use your imagination.
 

Araceli Cianna

Active Member
The idea that some other being can enter our body is ridiculous to me. I mean a virus or bacteria? Sure. But a whole other person who is you sized? I don't see how it is possible.
 

Guy Threepwood

Mighty Pirate
Sometimes in religious debates, christians will ask atheists such as myself to just "open my heart, let Jesus in, and pray that he reveal himself to me".

That makes me wonder: Assuming that I were to follow your kind advice -- what exactly is it you imagine that I do? How would I go about doing that?

It's a very personal thing but I can give you my take as a recovering atheist!

I used to wonder the same thing, how could I truly open my heart and pray sincerely to something I absolutely did not believe in?

For me it started with first acknowledging my own atheist beliefs as such, and turning a little bit of my critical eye on that for a change. Once open at least to the possibility of God, then I think the lines of communication are not shut off entirely. It can never work while actively cynical- how could it? You can't force a person into a meaningful relationship with you, they have to want it.
 

PureX

Veteran Member
Sometimes in religious debates, christians will ask atheists such as myself to just "open my heart, let Jesus in, and pray that he reveal himself to me".

That makes me wonder: Assuming that I were to follow your kind advice -- what exactly is it you imagine that I do? How would I go about doing that?
They want you to set your mind to being open to the idea of their Jesus-god.
 

QuestioningMind

Well-Known Member
Ok understood loud and clear.

With sincerity, lift your hands up to God and say, "Oh turner of the hearts, open my heart to you."

That's it.

How exactly does one 'sincerely' ask a being that I have no reason to believe actually exits to open my heart? Could you 'sincerely' ask invisible unicorns to open your heart?
 
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