I did it so that I wouldn't have to double-post. If the mods are cool with it, I can make them separate, however.
If it greatly simplifies things for you then I will just live with it. It just causes my first post to disappear and it starts with your response but without your name in the heading but its no big deal.
Nope, but people do give their own reasons for losing their faith. As to whether them losing their faith causes them damnation, I obviously cannot know. Ceasing to love God would seem to be a good one just from my subjective reasoning. I don't see how one can call God their master while serving the Devil.
The same way Paul did, "It is no longer I (my soul or Mind) that sins but my flesh". Read the entire chapter and it explains this very well. Anyway you made a claim to knowledge, you said whether a person goes to hell or heaven depends on why they lost their faith. A claim to knowledge requires proof or at least good evidence.
I would say that God choosing to leave us is different from us choosing to leave Him.
Maybe but not in this context. Like I said look up the Latin or Greek the term paraclete is much stronger than the English word used. It is where parasite comes from. It means to come along side in a permanent manner. God promises never ever to leave you, that means you will never go to Hell because Jesus is certainly not going to sit in Hell with for eternity.
I don't find it too hard of a stretch for a former Christian to have reasoned their experiences with God were all in their head, since the amount of verifiable evidence that they had an experience with a spiritual being would be rather lacking when compared to that of the existence of a country. One possible exception to this would be some kind of physical effects that resulted from the experience (such as healing) or the revelation of specific knowledge that the person could not have gotten right by guessing. Again, even this could be questioned if other religions claimed similar phenomena, as it would be evidence that their gods are just as real as the Abrahamic God.
These experiences come with all manner of things that are very hard to write of as natural later on. I have all kinds of doubts from time to time. Being born again is not among them. As I have said I had to read blog after blog to write a paper on salvation (actually more than one), virtually all of them come with events that the natural cannot account for. However I am not denying this occurs. I am trying to say it would be a hard position to arrive at which is such a small minority (of BORN AGAIN Christians) give their faith up.
I have little doubt that a very large portion of Christians who leave Christianity did not have compelling spiritual experiences. That's rather sensible. I just find it wanting to claim that none of the Christians who leave Christianity have had divine experiences.
This is correct and if they did not have at least that born again experience were never Christians to begin with. Sitting in a garage does not make you a car and no one is ever good enough to earn heaven. I will give you a famous example, Bart Ehrman modern biblical critic (the most famous) and a competent scholar says he used to be a Christian but he no longer believes. But under examination DR Whites showed that Ehrman's faith was based on the bible's (all bible's) being perfect and without flaw or difference. What happened to Ehrman happened to me and others by the millions we have a superficial faith that when something we don not expect happens we give it up. When my Mom died I went from superficial Christian to an anti-theist. Years later I finally met Christ spiritually and have never doubted his existence since and can't conceive of anything that would cause me to lose the core of my faith. Born again faith has power behind it and weathers the storms, superficial believe changes with the slightest breeze.
{quote]No, of course not. I don't expect a "true" Christian to be perfectly good. I would expect a true Christian to be consistently good, though (unless they are simply ignorant about specific issues of sin).[/quote] Then why did Paul call himself the chief of sinners. I agree the general Christian should at least show he is more morally orientated that the average non and if that is what you want to see you will never run out of them. As I have stated I can meet someone and in a day or two guess whether he is a Christian with at least a 90% success rate because God will have left a mark of their character of some type that the average does not have.
Yes, that's just my best judgement as well. I don't have any anecdotes to go on in support of that.
If you adopt a grace system of salvation you answer a thousand questions, if you adopt a merit based system or a combination of the two (which is logically impossible) you are immediate smacked in the fact with a thousands questions you cannot answer. Grace and grace alone is by far the most harmonious and sufficient salvation model in human history. If we had enough time I could show this to you this to be true by necessity. It is not just that merit based salvation is not true, it is that it can't possibly be true of a good and rational God.
I concur with your agreement.
I don't have any numbers myself, but I am just giving an example of a potential way of thinking. If members of other religions did not lose their faith after lifetimes of troubles that could count as evidence in their favor as well, although, as I said before, I don't have numbers of that.
Let me give you a piece of advice. Stay away from statistics. They are notoriously hard to use. For example if you said only 5% of Muslims lose their faith compared with Christians well you have created a huge mess. Muslims in many nations risk capitol punishment by leaving Islam, they live in parts of the world where the entire culture is Islamic and you would have to betray everyone you know to leave it, they are labeled Muslims at birth and are trained a small children to recite, recite, recite, etc........... I was in the military and Islamic culture in many areas use the exact same techniques as military manuals of brainwashing put forward. Those nations usually only have two things to hold on to for hope, oil money, and Allah. To abandon either is to abandon hope, because in many nations Christianity is not allowed. There is not one church in Saudi Arabia. So you can see statistics can be hard things to use and I was just getting warmed up on the reasons why.