I'm not bugging you Quag and why do you see it that way? I am a human creature and recently had a friend die and was a bit emotional and was unrelated to this thread but within context expressing my own personal frustration which seems to have no outlet. How should I argue blatant religious sympathy I disagree with and think is anything but comforting with people I consider dear friends who take comfort in that. It doesn't help me but hopefully it helps them. That's my motivation and it has little to do with you except to contextualize how I was feeling when I was posting.
I think I have cleared that up but I will clarify. Between facebook, twitter, email, funerals and wakes combined with personal sessions where my emotions to my loss are forced to take a back seat in order for me to rationally comfort the majority of my friends who are also religious and experiencing the same loss and who are grieving and unaware of how their response and words might affect me leaves me in an odd position to instead innocuously vent on the forums.
Sorry
. Vent away.
Whether it helps you or not is irrelevant to the question of the point of the post was did it help me? I think it probably did as I feel better today then I did yesterday. Is this pointless response leading up to something?
Did you read the OP?
Tbh, not really. I tried 4 times but between the lack of paragraph breaks and the color of the font, it lost me every time.
Still. like most thread, this one's taken on a life of it's own so most of what I'm saying in it is a reaction to the other reactions.
Do you understand where I took issue? By your reply I am guessing no. Do I have to emoticon my reply in order for you to get it? Did I quote something in my response as some context for you to attack my ability to understand what this thread is about? I added a response with context and if you have an issue with me then take it up with me but fallacious arguments that serve only as a personal attack on me and as an ad hominem considering its you responding is below you.
Thing is, to me at this point, this thread looks like a few theists asking "why are a lot of people who don't like the whole idea of religion and don't want anything to do with it coming into a place that's supposed to be about this:
Mission Statement As a community of diverse cultural and religious backgrounds, our aim is to provide a civil environment, informative, respectful and welcoming where people of diverse beliefs can discuss, compare and debate religion while engaging in fellowship with one another.
I think it's a valid question.
And the other thing I see going on in this thread is basically the other side saying "Religion sucks so it's not only OK for us to be misusing this place, it's our right, maybe even our duty".
that's what this thread seems to be about to me at this point.
So it comes down to what? Your fantastical understanding and condescending reply to my post which you have taken little time to understand? This is another attack on me and not my argument. I went door to door and I was those people. I don't have an issue with them or with me. You don't get it or are you inclined to completely and unrelated to what we are discussing suddenly feel the need to insult me?
If I'm insulting or attacking anything anything it's the situation I just pointed to above. In your opening paragraph you said this
Enough that I have to deal with the loss but now I have to politely deal with your supernatural lectures for months?
Notice the personal pronoun there. This doesn't look like an accusation aimed at religious people in general to you?
Now, I'm not a religious person. I don't belong to any religion, and I'm not personally offended by anybodies views about religion. Personally, it's none of my business. My problem, if you want to call it that, is that IMO, this place is not being used for what it was intended to be used for.
Or put it this way, my personal stake in all this is this: over the last 4 years I've devoted a massive chunk of my life to trying to get and keep this place in line with the mission statement above.
Through most of that time I've had it in my head that a place like this has a lot of potential to do some good in the world. Most of the problems I see in the world---personal to global---seem to me to be the result of a lack of understanding, or a lack of willingness to understand, between people in general.
Anyplace that has a chance of minimizing any small bit of that misunderstanding sounds like something worth devoting some time to.
Unfortunately, for a long time now, I look around this place and have to ask myself, "Did I just waste 4 years of my life providing a playground for a lot of angry little kids with an axe to grind?" that doesn't sound worthwhile to me.
Come to a forum like this one... I have been here for years. (You personally first Fruballed me in 2008) Your response is pointless, adds nothing and caused me to spend most of my time pointing that out rather than contributing to this thread which you argue I have no idea about.
Maybe we see it as about 2 different things.