Thanks to outhouse for getting Storm to explain here rather terse comment that my paragraph was "stereotyping again".
Here. I for one don't consider all criticism of religion/ spirituality to be anti-theistic. Far from it.
Well, I think that that is the entire problem with this label "anti-theism". It can be construed as just opposition to religion in principle. In fact, Quagmire defined it that broadly to me, at first, but he later narrowed the meaning to refer to someone who aggressively or unfairly provokes religious people. My objection is to the label, because the label itself is used to cast aspersions on a group of people whose definition so easily shifts around. You call anti-theists "bigots"--sort of equivalent to "anti-semites"--but not all people generally opposed to theism are bigots.
Anti-theism is not rejection. Anti-theism is not criticism, even when harsh. Anti-theism is hatred.
That is a facile definition that suits your purposes. You seem to need to lump a certain group of people into this category. They are "haters" who just happen to be anti-religion, not just anybody. However, there are "haters" who just happen to be anti-atheism. One could similarly create a label for just those people who oppose atheism and are bigots. What should we call them? Anti-atheists? How about just "theists"? These labels can be very dangerous, because they are themselves targets for hatred.
Let's be clear. I object to the label, especially as used in this thread, because it seems designed solely to set up a group of people as targets for anger and hatred. Let's all "hate the haters". In the end, though, not everyone defines "anti-theists" as just bigots. That doesn't mean that they won't share your feelings against "anti-theists", however. Why don't we just have a clean label for anyone who spreads hatred regardless of whether they are theists or non-theists? Why do we have to have special labels for bigots of one stripe or another?
I don't consider ANY evangelism to be acceptable. Normal, sadly, but incredibly arrogant and intolerant.
Personally, I don't mind people proselytizing faith. It is natural for people to try to persuade others to adopt their own attitudes and beliefs. One can do that, however, and still maintain an attitude of tolerance towards other beliefs. It is a matter of what rules of engagement one adopts, not whether one decides to actually engage others. After all, you are also engaged in trying to persuade others of your opinion in these debate forums. Is that not also a type of evangelism?
Sadly, this is true. Bigoted believers are taken for granted. Bigoted non-believers are new and shocking. It's a double standard, but not everyone applies it. For me, a bigot is a bigot is a bigot.
But why is it necessary to single out bigots who just happen to oppose theism and give them a special label? Isn't that a bit hypocritical?
In short, the fact that I label atheistic religious bigotry "anti-theism" does not mean I accept, much less condone bigotry from the other side. To assume that all, or even most believers do is the primary stereotype of the post in question.
I get your intentions here. I just don't think it reasonable to expect others to get them. Special labels for haters are dangerous things.