@gnostic There is only one leader as far as JWs are concerned - Jesus Christ. (Matthew 23:10)
Neither be called leaders, for your Leader is one, the Christ. . .
The brothers, do not "Lord it over" anyone's faith. (Matthew 20:25-27)
(1 Peter 5:2, 3)
2 Shepherd the flock of God under your care, serving as overseers, not under compulsion, but willingly before God; not for love of dishonest gain, but eagerly;
3 not lording it over those who are God’s inheritance, but becoming examples to the flock.
So
the choice is up to the individuals.
So say tomorrow, I accepted evolution, as something I now believe - that man evolved from an ape-like ancestor.
So I go in the ministry with fellow witnesses, and someone raises the question. "Do you believe God created two beings - Adam and Eve?"
Me: "Umm. Uh..."
My partner: Yes, I believe what the Bible says. It says, God created the first man and woman, and from these, all mankind came. Only, there was a time when Noah and his family, who had the genes of Adam, passed those on to future generations.
Me:
Householder: What say you? Do you agree?
Me: Umm...
I believe God created the universe, from which life came.
Householder: What did you say? I didn't hear you.
Me: We'll come back another time, and discuss that with you. Will you be available say....?
What just happened?
This is a cause for concern - a problem.
(1 Corinthians 1:10-18)
10 Now I urge you, brothers, through the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that you should all speak in agreement and that there should be no divisions among you, but that you may be completely united in the same mind and in the same line of thought. 11 For some from the house of Chloe have informed me regarding you, my brothers, that there are dissensions among you. 12 What I mean is this, that each one of you says: “I belong to Paul,” “But I to A·polʹlos,” “But I to Cephas,” “But I to Christ.” 13 Is the Christ divided? Paul was not executed on the stake for you, was he? Or were you baptized in the name of Paul? 14 I thank God that I baptized none of you except Crispus and Gaius, 15 so that no one may say that you were baptized in my name. 16 Yes, I also baptized the household of Stephanas. As for the rest, I do not know whether I baptized anyone else. 17 For Christ sent me, not to baptize, but to declare the good news; and not with wisdom of speech, so that the torture stake of the Christ should not be made useless. 18 For the speech about the torture stake is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved, it is God’s power.
When problem arises in the congregation, what is to be done?
That's why overseers are appointed - to maintain, the peace, unity, and order, in the congregation. (1 Corinthians 14:33)
For God is a God not of disorder but of peace.. . .
I need to have a little talk with the overseers, and let them know that I have had a change of mind, and
no longer believe the Bible to be truly God's word, but the product of myths and legends.
After all, that would be the honest thing to do.
How can I continue to share in preaching along with the congregation, with which I no longer agree with it's teachings?
Of course, the brothers will be loving and patient with me.
When I made my vow at baptism, I agreed to two things.
One of those things I agreed to was that I understand that I identify myself as being one of JWs, in association with his organization.
Has that changed?
In all honesty, I now demonstrate that I don't
identify as
one of JWs in association with his organization.
In that case, what should I do.
"Please keep me on as one of JWs. I beg you. Don't mind I contradict my brothers, and speak against what they believe (and I once believed). It can still work ou..."
Excuse me?
Be a man / woman, and just accept that you changed your mind, and now want out. Stop being a cry baby.
I, or the elders, have an important decision to make.
Either way
I have made the choice. No one made that choice for me.
Edit:
@gnostic Will I face "ostracism"? That depends on me.
I hope this is clear enough.