1robin
Christian/Baptist
Very well.Okay, 1Robin, as you pointed out, you haven't used the Bible to justify your anti-gay stance, so I won't use it either. Let's consider that part of our discussion over, shall we?
I never said anything about what could happen. I said marriage was instituted for one of two reasons in the pasts of virtually every culture. This isi why the institution was sanctioned and recognized.This is wrong. People can have children without being married. I am not aware of any country in the world that says that only married couples are permitted to have children. If you know of one, please let me know.
1. To perpetuate the species by establishing secure families to bring children up in.
2. As a reflection of God's relationship with the church (but I was not using this one).
I am not talking about capacity but about purpose. Marriage was instituted to be conducive to perpetuating the race. I did not say it had any biological function in creating a child. Beings survive better in tribes that are accepted by society. That is why children outside wedlock were referred to as illegitimate.
What does what people want have to do with anything? Yes they want to have children but what they want is not the basis of law. Are we to let the prisoners all out because they wanted to commit crime?Also, do you really think that people get married just because they want to have children? Please. What about the people who get married because they feel this emotion called "love" towards another? Does that play no part in it?
1. I was not talking about marriage at all, you brought it up. I was talking about gay sex.
2. If I was talking about marriage it was not why Suzy married Bill.
3. It was why marriage has been institutionalized and codified by society at large.
Life is vexing enough not to need hypotheticals. It also is no defense of something to point out something is worse. I do not care about marriage anyway. I was talking about a behavior that kills without any justification.Let me ask you, which is a worse crime? For me to get married to a woman I do not love just for the purpose of churning out babies, or for me to get married to a woman I adore completely, even though we have no desire to ever have children? Which of those do you find to be worse?
That is between the people who codified marriage and the law. You have totally left the issue for some far off aspect of historical relationships that I was not talking about. My main contentions concern sex not marriage.Oh, and what about couples who are either unwilling or unable to get pregnant? Should they also be denied the right to get married, since, as you said, the primary purpose of marriage is to produce children?
This is like a child's defending his wrong action by pointing out a worse one he made up about Jim or Jim actually did. A thief is not right even if he points at a murderer. We should ban smoking and alcohol, for the exact same reason we ban a thousand types of drugs and chemicals. You can't use human inconsistency and moral insanity as a defense for more moral insanity.And there are things that are far more prevalent in heterosexual relationships than in homosexual relationships. Your argument is that, "Activity X causes harmful result Y, therefore Activity X should be banned." By this same logic, we should ban smoking and alcohol. What percentage of lung cancer sufferers are smokers? What percentage of road fatalities are from drink driving? How many liver disorders come from alcoholism? If you want to argue that a thing should be banned because it is harmful, then we must ban EVERYTHING that is harmful.
I was not arguing about banning anything anyway. I was saying if X causes massive harm and has no justification it is immoral. Quit changing the subject and taking off ramps. You cannot defend a behavior that is a distortion of nature, increases suffering in huge quantities, and costs others billions. You can't rationalize this. It is not moral. it is not defendable, it is not reasonable, and doe snot become ok even if something else is wrong, and that is why 99% of humanity over all has termed it immoral.
For crying out loud not causing harm without justification is the most basic foundation in all of law. However let me join you in fantasy land for a minute. If causing harm without justification is moral in your universe then pray tell what isn't?
Your defending death for the love.
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