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Why Debate the Existence of God with Non-believers?

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Why debate the existence of God with non-believers?

Well....... basically speaking, I dun sum bad fings and that in my life, innit..... an' if I can get a pagan barbarian to.... like..... see the light, an' all, vis could kinda get big G like to cut me a bit'a slack an' all..... innit. See wot I mean? Oar-wite?

So, bruvver....could yer find the time, like, ter see the lite, like? An'all?

It's good in 'eaven, mate...... classy......
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
I feel in a lot of cases that they argue hoping to convert others to their way of thinking, deep down they know what they believe is unbelievable, so the more people believing in the same thing gives them hope and feeds their belief.
 

LuisDantas

Aura of atheification
Premium Member
I feel in a lot of cases that they argue hoping to convert others to their way of thinking, deep down they know what they believe is unbelievable, so the more people believing in the same thing gives them hope and feeds their belief.

One certainly suspects that, at least occasionally.
 

Windwalker

Veteran Member
Premium Member
I feel in a lot of cases that they argue hoping to convert others to their way of thinking, deep down they know what they believe is unbelievable, so the more people believing in the same thing gives them hope and feeds their belief.
An interesting thought on what motivates people to try to convert others that kind of goes along with what you say here. It's not that they believe deep down its unbelievable. They very much do believe it. But rather its just simply the dynamic of what happens when what someone believes is in tension with what the majority believes. It's that tension that motivates them to seek out converts to grow their numbers and reduced the tension. If others believe as you do, then you have a greater support community.
 

HeatherAnn

Active Member
Oh man, yes!! This is the conversation I've been waiting to hear. You're absolutely correct. God being a literal, actual sky-deity of whatever tradition forms or portrays it, is ultimately irrelevant to the function of God (in this context I'm speaking of an image, a symbol, an archetype) and how it draws out of the subconscious the yet unrealized nature of who we are. We come to know ourselves through God.

Why? Because in a theistic image of the Absolute, or the Infinite, there is an "I-Thou" relationship. A 2nd person perspective, which creates a relationship to ourselves, through our relationship to the other. This is how we function in normal daily interactions, where our relationship with and to the other, creates our own self-sense. So when it comes to the theistic view of God, God plays the role of the "Holy-Other". We lay ourselves down before this form of the Divine, we humble ourselves, we empty ourselves of ego and its striving and self-seeking. Only in this, in that moment of abandoning the small self, the egoic "I", do we begin to see that "me" beyond the ego. It is to say the least, liberating. That relationship moves that to one of freedom and equality, a marriage of the soul with the Divine, and the ego is transcended. It tells us of our Divine nature and Identity.

These are the roles of archetypes. To quote from Ken Wilber, whom I'm an avid admirer of his insights, this really expresses well that realization I came to in myself in moving away from identifying myself as an atheist.
"But this is not God as an ontological other, set apart from the cosmos, from humans, and from creation at large. Rather, it is God as an archetypal summit of one's own Consciousness. ... By visualizing that identification 'we actually do become the deity. The subject is identified with the object of faith. The worship, the worshiper, and the worshiped, those three are not separate'. At its peak, the soul becomes one, literally one, with the deity-form, with the dhyani-buddha, with (choose whatever term one prefers) God. One dissolves into Deity, as Deity - that Deity which, from the beginning, has been one's own Self or highest Archetype."


~Ken Wilber, Eye to Eye, pg. 85
The power of belief, of visualization, of faith in direct experience (not faith as a cognitive belief, but a faith of the entire being in abandoning itself to the unknown), is undeniably powerful in individual practice. But it must be realized in actual practice, and not just some doctrinal statement of faith. I see those as comparable to the training wheels on a bicycle that serve only to show you what balance is supposed to look or feel like, but that you will not truly know until your ride under your own sense of balance. At which point, those training wheels need to come off or they become a hindrance to flow. As the Buddha said, "To insist upon a spiritual practice that served you in the past, is to carry the raft upon your back after you've already crossed the river".

It's my view that atheism, and what it was for me and what role it played was to break off the training wheels in order for me to ride freely. But atheism, like any screwdriver that helped you unloosen something, shouldn't become your tool for life. Now, I'm free to believe, or not believe, or whatever serves the end which is growth into a knowledge of the true Self, and through this Knowledge to love others as myself.
Windwalker,
Thank you! How refreshing!
I've also waited to discuss this... most people are either literal Atheists or literal Theists - both ignore significant aspects of spirituality.

You make some very interesting points - particularly about tools and the need to discard them when you've moved on.
It's a little like the idea of "positive disintegration" - which is the similar to Erikson's developmental crisis... except ideally, we continue to progress our entire lives.

I'm curious - what do you know about the dark night of the soul?
 

HeatherAnn

Active Member
An interesting thought on what motivates people to try to convert others that kind of goes along with what you say here. It's not that they believe deep down its unbelievable. They very much do believe it. But rather its just simply the dynamic of what happens when what someone believes is in tension with what the majority believes. It's that tension that motivates them to seek out converts to grow their numbers and reduced the tension. If others believe as you do, then you have a greater support community.
Exactly!
You have no idea how much I can relate with that!
I live in the most Mormon area of the Most mormon county and state... I'm surrounded by it - every neighbor - & most influencial - my husband & family.
It is really like a cult in many aspects, so they label me evil for questioning traditional beliefs that I see as harmful. It's a lonely place to be.
I want them to consider a different idea of God/Spirituality, and they want me to "come back to the fold."

It goes both ways, I guess - about wanting people to see things as we do - because we feel the social support.
Anciently it was probably a matter of survival, so it tends to stir passionate feelings.
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
An interesting thought on what motivates people to try to convert others that kind of goes along with what you say here. It's not that they believe deep down its unbelievable. They very much do believe it. But rather its just simply the dynamic of what happens when what someone believes is in tension with what the majority believes. It's that tension that motivates them to seek out converts to grow their numbers and reduced the tension. If others believe as you do, then you have a greater support community.

Yes that is a good point also.
 

Windwalker

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Windwalker,
You make some very interesting points - particularly about tools and the need to discard them when you've moved on.
It's a little like the idea of "positive disintegration" - which is the similar to Erikson's developmental crisis... except ideally, we continue to progress our entire lives.
Is the term "Transcend and include" familiar to you? Stages of growth require structures to help integrate our current level. They serve to help translate the world for us in order for us to master sufficiently enough to move to the next level, the next developmental stage. As we move into the next stage we "negate" the present level as the standard mode of operation, but include the lessons learned and build upon them. It does not destroy the previous level, by includes it's good parts, while discarding the unnecessary parts.

What happens as we progress, the structures become replaced with new structures for the next development stage in order to provide translation horizontally for the purpose of integrating that level. Rinse and repeat all the way up the stages.

What's interesting is what causes one to emerge into a new level! That's a conversation I'm looking forward to with you!

I'm curious - what do you know about the dark night of the soul?
Yes, it's that stage of being at the end of yourself, having tasted of the Divine Light, and are left unsatisfied with all substitutions which leaves one crying out to awaken. I know it well. I believe Evelyn Underhill laid it out as the fourth stage of mystical awakening.
 

HeatherAnn

Active Member
Windwalker,
I'm going to read up on what you've mentioned & think more about this before I reply...
I look forward to discussing more with you, my new friend! :)
 

Windwalker

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Exactly!
You have no idea how much I can relate with that!
I live in the most Mormon area of the Most mormon county and state... I'm surrounded by it - every neighbor - & most influencial - my husband & family.
It is really like a cult in many aspects, so they label me evil for questioning traditional beliefs that I see as harmful. It's a lonely place to be.
I want them to consider a different idea of God/Spirituality, and they want me to "come back to the fold."
Oh, you are a sojourner! A truly insatiable thirst moves you on against the tides! :) That is the power of the draw to emergence at work. It can't be ignored. I too know this well.

It goes both ways, I guess - about wanting people to see things as we do - because we feel the social support.
Anciently it was probably a matter of survival, so it tends to stir passionate feelings.
Well, since you are bringing up Erickson's developmental stages, there are other models of development as well to go with it. Are you familiar with Jean Gebser? He looked at cultural development and came up with his model of this as his stages of consciousness, ironically at the same time a Piaget was coming up with his developmental stages in childhood development. They were unaware of each other's work, yet what Gebser saw looking at human history, paralleled Piaget. So what in essence you see, is that what you see in a child development, is a micro-cosmic short-term match of a macro-cosmic development of the human species.

Now all that to lay out those stages. They move from Archaic, to magic, to mythic, to rational, to pluralistic, to integral (and potentially beyond). The mythic stage is characterized by ethnocentric modes of thought. "The chosen people". Then in group, and out group. It corresponds with rule/role conformity, driven by group cohesion. They are the people of this god, or that prophet, etc, that set them apart from others. Religion at this stage is mythic-literal in nature. To challenge anything much that threatens group-cohesion, is viewed as a threat of dissolution of their structures, and hence the work of Satan. You are outcast, shunned, etc.

How that sound so far?

BTW, here's some more detail on Gebser's stages of consciousness: AN OVERVIEW OF THE WORK OF JEAN GEBSER

(This is so exciting! :dan: )
 

HeatherAnn

Active Member
Oh, you are a sojourner! A truly insatiable thirst moves you on against the tides! :) That is the power of the draw to emergence at work. It can't be ignored. I too know this well.


Well, since you are bringing up Erickson's developmental stages, there are other models of development as well to go with it. Are you familiar with Jean Gebser? He looked at cultural development and came up with his model of this as his stages of consciousness, ironically at the same time a Piaget was coming up with his developmental stages in childhood development. They were unaware of each other's work, yet what Gebser saw looking at human history, paralleled Piaget. So what in essence you see, is that what you see in a child development, is a micro-cosmic short-term match of a macro-cosmic development of the human species.

Now all that to lay out those stages. They move from Archaic, to magic, to mythic, to rational, to pluralistic, to integral (and potentially beyond). The mythic stage is characterized by ethnocentric modes of thought. "The chosen people". Then in group, and out group. It corresponds with rule/role conformity, driven by group cohesion. They are the people of this god, or that prophet, etc, that set them apart from others. Religion at this stage is mythic-literal in nature. To challenge anything much that threatens group-cohesion, is viewed as a threat of dissolution of their structures, and hence the work of Satan. You are outcast, shunned, etc.

How that sound so far?

BTW, here's some more detail on Gebser's stages of consciousness: AN OVERVIEW OF THE WORK OF JEAN GEBSER

(This is so exciting! :dan: )
This is exciting, Windwalker! I keep smiling, when I'm reading your posts, when I'm not thinking deeply...
(BTW.. Several years ago, when I was sourjourning even more than I am now, ;) I wrote a poem, comparing wind with love.)

You are a god-send, because I was really feeling discouraged, lonely mostly - I feel like there's a lot I'm missing - connection especially. Probably much of it will be found in meditation, which I'm trying to dedicate myself to more, but also I've missed talking with people I don't have to argue or work so hard to find connection. Already you've give me a lot to think about!
It seems like we're on the same page in many ways, and that's so nice!

So far, what I know most about spiritual spiral dynamics is from a book called, Putting on the Mind of Christ (by Jim Marion) He (& others like Tolle) has helped me so much in seeing more in depth truth of Christianity, although there are some aspects I see differently than he.

I compared his levels with the "seals" given in Revelation, because I think spiritual books are more about spiritual parables than history or future-telling.

1st seal, a crown is given - birth/life - Archaic & Magical Consciousness
2nd seal, a sword is given - ability to discern good from evil - Mythic Consciousness
3rd seal, balances are had - questioning myths - Rational Consciousness level
4th seal - power was given - can see many perspectives - Vision-Logic Consciousness
5th seal - Shown souls who were slain for the word of God - fears conquered for love - Psychic/Spirit Consciousness
6th seal - earthquakes, sun black, stars fall - see our imperfections "bursts our egotistical bubble" - Dark night of the senses
7th seal - silence, then "all hell breaks loose" with wars & plagues - Confronting "feelings buried alive"- Dark Night/Confronting Shadow Self
Christ reigns - Spiritual union with God, Our Creators - Christ Consciousness

Windwalker, I'm still reading up on some things you've suggested and thank you so much for sharing it! It seems to be a clearer, more down-to-earth explanation. To answer your question about what inspires us to move on, I think it's inborn intelligence in us - and in every life. This is probably another topic... but Stephan Hawking defined intelligence as "the ability to adapt to change" & I see us and this world full of such intelligence! What do you think?

BTW - Happy Mother's Day!
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Ouroboros

Coincidentia oppositorum
It's my view that atheism, and what it was for me and what role it played was to break off the training wheels in order for me to ride freely. But atheism, like any screwdriver that helped you unloosen something, shouldn't become your tool for life. Now, I'm free to believe, or not believe, or whatever serves the end which is growth into a knowledge of the true Self, and through this Knowledge to love others as myself.
Personally, I feel now that I'm an atheist and theist at the same time. It's a state of is and isn't.
 

Windwalker

Veteran Member
Premium Member
You are a god-send, because I was really feeling discouraged, lonely mostly - I feel like there's a lot I'm missing - connection especially. Probably much of it will be found in meditation, which I'm trying to dedicate myself to more, but also I've missed talking with people I don't have to argue or work so hard to find connection. Already you've give me a lot to think about!
That's great! I'm happy to hear that. Yes, meditation is quite important, but so is having a support network. Meditation is a prominent part of my life, where I set aside at least 60 minutes each morning for it before my day begins. Being consistent is important. But as much as is exposed to me in meditation, as much deep inner work is done, I am fortunate to have a partner who has years of experience in this herself, so it helps me when I struggle with this or that, or just to share my enthusiasm with her. It's affirmation that others give, and that's important.

I keep thinking how amazing the Internet is to open up the world on levels like these to those who are isolated in communities that have nothing like this accessible to people trying to find their way. Another friend of mine who is Integral (which you are from everything I hear, by the way), lives in the deep South Bible Belt, where everything is all very black and white. It's amazing how he can thrive there, but he does. I think there Internet and the free access to reading material and discussion forums like this make a huge difference. But actually in-person communities are always better as communication is much more expressive in person.

So far, what I know most about spiritual spiral dynamics is from a book called, Putting on the Mind of Christ (by Jim Marion) He (& others like Tolle) has helped me so much in seeing more in depth truth of Christianity, although there are some aspects I see differently than he.
Hey! You mentioned Spiral Dynamics! Yes, you know this work. Jim Marion draw from the Integral Philosophy of Ken Wilber, whom I quite well-versed in. Other books by Christians building on the Integral model whom you may enjoy would be Paul Smith's Integral Christianity. Now, I have not read this book, but I listened to a 4-part interview with him with Ken Wilber. I like what I heard him expressing in it, and it may be of value to you.

The one Christian author who draws from Integral philosophy in the contemplative tradition whom I find truly inspiring is Cynthia Bourgeault. She really "gets it", and expresses a wonderful way of looking at the Christian tradition that honors it, yet liberates it to a deeply spiritual understanding. I have several of her books, and my favorites are The Wisdom Jesus, and The Meaning of Mary Magdalene (the latter is my favorite). I first learned of her hearing an interview with her with Ken Wilber as well.

If you want to tackle Wilber directly, I should warn you it can be "dense" material because he is very academic about laying things out, a lot of terminology to become familiar with. But of the 8 books of his I own are read (he has some 20-30, I believe), I would recommend A Sociable God: Toward a New Understanding of Religion as one that is both academic (necessarily so), yet easy to access, relatively so. I recommend that first, but I'm sure others may suggest some others. My two favorites of his I've read so far are that one, and Eye to Eye. My next two favorites are Up from Eden, and Atman Project.

There. That should keep you busy for awhile!! :) (You'll be informed to the teeth when you finish those! Plus, so much will be brought together of what you've already sensed and seen on your own).

Windwalker, I'm still reading up on some things you've suggested and thank you so much for sharing it! It seems to be a clearer, more down-to-earth explanation. To answer your question about what inspires us to move on, I think it's inborn intelligence in us - and in every life. This is probably another topic... but Stephan Hawking defined intelligence as "the ability to adapt to change" & I see us and this world full of such intelligence! What do you think?
Oh yes. I like Pierre Teilhard de Chardin's use of the term the Omega Point, to describe the focal point that draws things to itself. Tie this with Paul Tillich's "Ground of Being" (God), it is the Source that gives rise to life, and to which all life is draw in return. But not toward disillusion, to death, but to Realization. In the fullness of being through becoming. All creation reaches for that Unity, and evolution is the stream through which life emerges into awareness of the Self and knowledge of Truth.

So, there you go. :) Lots of food for processing. Practice meditation, as well as learn. There is no substitute for that knowledge that we learn as we learn who we are "face to face".

Peace, my friend.
 

Tarheeler

Argumentative Curmudgeon
Premium Member
Why debate the existence of God with non-believers?

I don't. To be honest, I couldn't care less if one believes in God or not, and there's no way to prove it one way of the other. I'm much more interested in discussing religious philosophy, practice, theology, and how it all ties into our lives.
 

Gehennaite

Active Member
Why debate the existence of God with non-believers?
I quit debating the tenants of atheism & theism about two years ago. I am fed up with it. At the end of the day, I don't even feel that belief in God is the most essential aspect of one's existence.

What matters more are one's actions. Regardless of how little one's actions are, they either positively or negatively contribute to society. Therefore, I spend my time debating ethics & morality.
 

illykitty

RF's pet cat
Not debate... I enjoy a discussion but I don't go and try to convince people. There's nothing wrong with being an atheist anyway. So there's no reason for me to do this.
 

HeatherAnn

Active Member
That's great! I'm happy to hear that. Yes, meditation is quite important, but so is having a support network. Meditation is a prominent part of my life, where I set aside at least 60 minutes each morning for it before my day begins. Being consistent is important. But as much as is exposed to me in meditation, as much deep inner work is done, I am fortunate to have a partner who has years of experience in this herself, so it helps me when I struggle with this or that, or just to share my enthusiasm with her. It's affirmation that others give, and that's important.
How lucky for you - and her!

I keep thinking how amazing the Internet is to open up the world on levels like these to those who are isolated in communities that have nothing like this accessible to people trying to find their way. Another friend of mine who is Integral (which you are from everything I hear, by the way), lives in the deep South Bible Belt, where everything is all very black and white. It's amazing how he can thrive there, but he does. I think there Internet and the free access to reading material and discussion forums like this make a huge difference. But actually in-person communities are always better as communication is much more expressive in person.
There is so much we miss of non-verbal communication through online communication, but still it has benefits of being less judgmental (no appearances), and in writing, there is a greater sense of freedom and potentially more contemplative communication.
Also, as you mentioned, it can be a sanity saver for people like me, who live among people who refuse to consider anything out side of their group belief package.

Hey! You mentioned Spiral Dynamics! Yes, you know this work. Jim Marion draw from the Integral Philosophy of Ken Wilber, whom I quite well-versed in. Other books by Christians building on the Integral model whom you may enjoy would be Paul Smith's Integral Christianity. Now, I have not read this book, but I listened to a 4-part interview with him with Ken Wilber. I like what I heard him expressing in it, and it may be of value to you.

The one Christian author who draws from Integral philosophy in the contemplative tradition whom I find truly inspiring is Cynthia Bourgeault. She really "gets it", and expresses a wonderful way of looking at the Christian tradition that honors it, yet liberates it to a deeply spiritual understanding. I have several of her books, and my favorites are The Wisdom Jesus, and The Meaning of Mary Magdalene (the latter is my favorite). I first learned of her hearing an interview with her with Ken Wilber as well.

If you want to tackle Wilber directly, I should warn you it can be "dense" material because he is very academic about laying things out, a lot of terminology to become familiar with. But of the 8 books of his I own are read (he has some 20-30, I believe), I would recommend A Sociable God: Toward a New Understanding of Religion as one that is both academic (necessarily so), yet easy to access, relatively so. I recommend that first, but I'm sure others may suggest some others. My two favorites of his I've read so far are that one, and Eye to Eye. My next two favorites are Up from Eden, and Atman Project.
Thank you for these suggestions!
One aspect I've been wondering about is the idea of a personal God.
In one way, I see God as impersonal - kindof like "truth happens" - whether we believe in it or not... If you keep running off cliffs, you'll keep getting hurt, etc. (Understanding action/consequence takes time though.)
Yet, in another way, as far as personally relating, I see God/truth as VERY personal... so personal that it's like describing love or beauty... my version will be REAL to me (have real influence - in inspiring me etc.) but it may likely be different for you.
It doesn't mean I'm right or you're right... we're both right, if it helps motivate us in healthy ways.
What do you think?

There. That should keep you busy for awhile!! :) (You'll be informed to the teeth when you finish those! Plus, so much will be brought together of what you've already sensed and seen on your own).

Oh yes. I like Pierre Teilhard de Chardin's use of the term the Omega Point, to describe the focal point that draws things to itself. Tie this with Paul Tillich's "Ground of Being" (God), it is the Source that gives rise to life, and to which all life is draw in return. But not toward disillusion, to death, but to Realization. In the fullness of being through becoming. All creation reaches for that Unity, and evolution is the stream through which life emerges into awareness of the Self and knowledge of Truth.

So, there you go. :) Lots of food for processing. Practice meditation, as well as learn. There is no substitute for that knowledge that we learn as we learn who we are "face to face".

Peace, my friend.
I'm really curious about some of these things you've suggested I read... Thanks for sharing them! I've missed being in school, so thank you for the homework! :)

Regarding the Omega Point (just briefly googled it)... is it concerned with metaphysics?
I was just thinking how real metaphysics is... I kindof take a little from science as well as religious tradition... God is intelligent design, but it didn't start with Adam & Eve (who's story is parable/symbolic for us). It likely started from maybe a star that exploded, that maybe had something to do with black holes (the extreme of love/attraction/God - compacted more densely than we can imagine). Within this are "god particles" popping in and out of existence... possibilities! Each of us have WITHIN us, amazing possibility! - Fundamentally - we women have eggs, and you men have sperm... which when combined (sperm & egg) - create another like us! God (as in the Energetic Source of ALL creation) began this universe (even the star that we may have come from) that contained the blueprint of potential for all that we have now... Yes, it took billions of years, but time is nothing in some ways (without the sun etc.). Each moment is energetically sizzling with possibilities!

I also see some spiritually universal truth in how dark energy is invisible and only known by its influence (like how light moves around it)...
"Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen."-Hebrews 11:1
Windwalker, I love what Gottfried Leibniz wrote on "monads"...

"These simple substances (monads) must be immaterial and have no extension, neither parts, nor divisibility. Now, where there are no constituent parts there is possible neither extension, nor form, nor divisibility. These mondads are the true Atoms of nature, and, in fact the elements of things...Their dissolution, therefore, is not to be feared and there is no way conceivable by which a simple substance can perish through natural means...
"Every present state of a simple substance is a natural consequence of its preceding state, in such a way that its present is pregnant with its future...
"Now this interconnection, relationship, or this adaptation of all things to each particular one, and of each one to all the rest, brings it about that every simple substance has relations which express all the others and that it is consequently a perpetual living mirror of the universe."
 
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