Why should someone have to prove to you that "their belief" is right for them.
Nobody has to do that.
And in my 15+-year experience on discussion boards, nobody has ever requested that another believer prove that their belief is right for them. How would that even look? Let's try it: I want you to prove to me that Sufism is right for you. Who ever posts that?
Just yesterday - and this may be what prompted you to start this thread - I suggested to you that one can become lost in the trappings of the spiritualism culture and actually be diverted from discovering spiritual truths that are there to discover through mindful living. That's about as close as I come to telling somebody anything resembling "prove your belief," and I didn't do that. I would hope that you would consider what I suggested and decide for yourself if your beliefs were working for you.
Incidentally, you usually respond promptly to my posts to you, but not that one. Did my words disturb you? They were intended to provide you with a perspective that you might find helpful. If they upset you, I apologize.
But it is natural to push something like that away, and to view it as dangerous or threatening thinking. Adopting a different idea of what spirituality is and how to pursue it would be an upending of your current mindset that the answers come from certain practices that you believe lead to a higher understanding. You have a huge stake in that being the case. You have invested much time and energy searching for the right method to pursue a spiritual path. I know from experience when I converted from Christianity to secular humanism that it's very disorienting and anxiety-provoking to reorient your thinking that much. It's not like moving a piece of furniture, but more like knocking down walls and jack-hammering the foundation. Old habits, even habits of thought, die hard.
Who are you to tell a faithful believer that their belief is wrong, because there is no "evidence" that YOU accept to be true?
Perhaps you are hearing something other than what is being said. The closest I see to that is that the theist's faith-based belief is wrong for them, because, as skeptics and critical thinkers, they require compelling evidence to believe.
You also should probably read, "show me your evidence" or "where is your evidence?" as meaning the same thing. The atheist already knows that the theist cannot present compelling evidence. It's an implicit statement that the theist believes by faith, and that is not the skeptic's standard for belief.
And yes I know your attack will come...who cares anyway????
I haven't seen you attacked in this thread or the other threads you participate in. I've seen you challenged. You seem to equate that with attack. You challenge others as you have in this thread. You obviously don't like something that you want changed. Has anybody framed that as you attacking them?