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I stopped going to church because of my promise to my wife to make my best effort to consider becoming Catholic.Unchurched people -- sometimes defined as people who have not been in a church for reasons other than a wedding, baptism, or funeral within the prior six months -- appear to be a growing segment of American society. Many people on this board are unchurched. So, if you are unchurched, or even on the verge of being unchurched, why have you left the church, or why are you considering leaving the church?
Do you still consider yourself religious? Spiritual? If so, what do you do about it? Do you read holy scriptures? Religious/spiritual literature? Playboy?
What has been the reaction of your friends and family to your being unchurched or to your considering leaving the church?
Thank you very much for your perspective. My wife has pretty much stopped attending Mass with me. I've been struggling as to the reasons why this is. Although your situation isn't exact, the parts I highlight seem to be the direction my wife is taking. It's almost as if by attending the Mass she was "too close to Catholicism"----> kind of like a parent trying to convince a kid of something but is unsuccessful, yet if a disinterested friend (third party) makes the same argument, he'll be convinced because of the lack of at least perceived bias associated. I sense she's needed to take a step back and work things out before she can feel comfortable attending again ---> if she will attend regularly again at all. Time will tell.I stopped going to church because of my promise to my wife to make my best effort to consider becoming Catholic.
No, that's not a typo....
...Finally I realized something: going to Mass was making me less likely to become Catholic, not more....
...Interestingly, since then, my attitude toward the Catholic Church has improved....
That's not really it for me. In my case, it's like the difference between choosing a place to live and choosing a place to visit on vacation. When I recognize that I'm never going to make my home in a place, I don't have have to worry about things like what it's like outside tourist season or how good a place it is to raise a family.It's almost as if by attending the Mass she was "too close to Catholicism"----> kind of like a parent trying to convince a kid of something but is unsuccessful, yet if a disinterested friend (third party) makes the same argument, he'll be convinced because of the lack of at least perceived bias associated.
The only Catholics that leave His Church are those that never really knew their Christian Faith
Because I never had one?
The only Catholics that leave His Church are those that never really knew their Christian Faith
Unchurched people -- sometimes defined as people who have not been in a church for reasons other than a wedding, baptism, or funeral within the prior six months -- appear to be a growing segment of American society. Many people on this board are unchurched. So, if you are unchurched, or even on the verge of being unchurched, why have you left the church, or why are you considering leaving the church?
Do you still consider yourself religious? Spiritual? If so, what do you do about it? Do you read holy scriptures? Religious/spiritual literature? Playboy?
What has been the reaction of your friends and family to your being unchurched or to your considering leaving the church?
The only Catholics that leave His Church are those that never really knew their Christian Faith
This is ismply not true.This is absolutely not true.
I pretty much guarantee that when you see what was a devout and knowledgeable Catholic
leave the RC church