Why is it Important to Love Who You Sleep With?

[Autodidact]

Why is it Important to Love Who You Sleep With?

Because anything less is a watered down second best fake of what you could really have....

Everything - all of it. Why settle for part of it when you could have all of it?

Clearly, the end times are upon us. I agree with idea.

 

[Autodidact]

So what happens when married people don't love each other then?
(and don't know each other after how many years...)

Just wondering.

They're not very happy.

 

[T-Dawg]

The man with whom I share my house and children
will never know me. never understand me,
or love who I am.


so whatever.

Er, I thought you were polyamorous? And why do you say he'll never love you? People change. Did you two used to love eachother? Do you love him? (If not, why are you married in the first place?)

 

[blackout]

it is precisely my polyamory that brings me relational happiness.

The rest i choose not to go into in any detail.
It's just silly when people paint marriage as some picture of guaranteed love and security.
That's all i was trying to point out.

The very same stuff that happens outside marriage,
can happen inside marriage.
(both good, and bad alike)

 

[idea]

Clearly, the end times are upon us. I agree with idea.

LOL! I just gave autodidact frubals :yes:

 

[blackout]

They're not very happy.

Not unless they know their happiness in other ways.

 

[MSizer]

Why is it Important to Love Who You Sleep With?

Because anything less is a watered down second best fake of what you could really have....


The Bible does not use the word sex - instead it uses the word "know". not just one flesh, one mind, one heart, emotionally, physically, spiritually united...

Everything - all of it. Why settle for part of it when you could have all of it?


Why is it Important to Love Who You Sleep With? ????
Asked by a person who has no idea what love is. If you knew what love is, you would never ask this question.

Uh, ok, so if you were having a craving for a certain food, and when you got to the store, the salesperson said "oh are you ever in luck, we just had a fresh shipment of exactly what you want, and it was rated 2nd place by food magazine in all of new england for quality" you'd say "oh damn, and I wanted some so badly, but it's not the best it can be, I guess it's not worth it". Please. What world do you live in? How do I move there?

Mark my words, you'll look back on your post some day and chuckle at your own words.

 

[Vasilisa Jade]

Love is a choice, not an instinct.

Starting new thread on this.... now.

This point has bothered me for a while and I don't ever remember seeing any topics specifically about it.