Ok, you don't want to make it illegal you just want to promote your ideas about raising kids is better then the next guys. I'm sure the next guy feels the same. I feel my bias is my bias and what I believe is right or better is not necessarily right of better for everyone else. That's kind of how religious ideology gets started, people assuming they know better about what's right and what's wrong then the next guy. Fortunately the US constitution provides some safeguards against us imposing or beliefs one another.
I've addressed this before. The whole idea of everyone's ideas being equally valid doesn't work. If we truly went with that, we couldn't have laws or anything other than anarchy. It's OK to think your views are better than others', but it's best when you have some kind of rational argument to back it up.
Of course there are times when it's best to just say "let them do things their way". For the most part, it's good to not judge others' parenting. It's true that you don't know what's going on in their lives, so just let them do things their way. But as I've gone over before, we all feel there are times it is OK to judge their parenting. You just don't think this is one of those times, whereas I do.
This is not how religious ideology gets started. To a certain point, we have to judge others' actions and even parenting. We can't just let parents do whatever they want with their children. This isn't a case where we should force them to stop, but it is a case where it's acceptable to judge a practice.
There are practices I disagree with as well. Doesn't mean I know for sure a particular practice is going to actually help or harm the child later in life. Just means it's not the way I'd go about things.
In other words, you agree, but are hesitant to agree fully.
Not really sure. Your opposed to what you consider forcing or indoctrination of ideas onto children. I find the "forcing" and or "indoctrination" of ideas necessary for society at least until the child is capable of self-determination. Me, I like encouraging self-determination. My wife likes to encourage continued dependance on her "wisdom". My kids develop their personality partially based on that interchange. I don't know that makes them better or worse then then someone else's kids. It just makes them who they are.
I'm opposed to indoctrination that has no real purpose. Obviously we have to teach kids certain things like how to communicate and how to interact with others. You can call that indoctrination, if you want, but teaching them personal beliefs as if they're true isn't necessary. We usually try to wait until a child's ready to teach them more advanced ideas. We don't try to teach kids algebra or about sex until they're a bit older. Just as with those other things, we can't expect kids to understand religious beliefs until they're at least a bit older. So, all I'm saying is teach them things consistently. We also don't teach them algebra is true "because we said so". We teach them how it works and why.
Of course I'm going to judge. I'm going to judge according to my morality. What I'm saying is that doesn't mean I think my morals are better then theirs. Just different.
Of course it doesn't mean that, but it also doesn't mean they're just different. As I said with laws, we have to determine at some point what is better and what's worse. With a lot of things, it's fine to just leave it at "we have different ideas". With some things it's reasonable to go further and say it's not only different to do it one way, it's better. Or else we can't tell people not to kill their children.
Actually I'm arguing against your belief that you know which "style" is better for someone else's kids.
And I'm explaining that you know what's best for someone else's kids too, in some cases. That's why we have laws regarding parenting. It sounds great to say "Hey, we're all just different; you have your beliefs and I have mine and they're all equal", but it doesn't really work like that. As a society we have to decide which views are better. We don't have to make laws for everything, but it's reasonable to conclude that some views are better than others, not just different.
Me, no. So what. Others in the past, present and probably future have different morals.
So, it's OK to break free from this "all beliefs are equal, just different" mindset.