Really? You never have a problem with other parents teaching how they see fit?
You're responding to the wrong argument here. No one is trying to stop people from teaching their kids as they see fit. The disagreement is over what are good ways to teach your kids and what are bad ways.
Really? Again?... It's ok for a parent to teach their kids in the manner they feel is appropriate as long as you feel it is appropriate. Otherwise it is not appropriate.
Your position is becoming very confusing.
My position is simple. As long as the parent isn't breaking the law which we as a society have agree to. You feel you know better. So does every parent. Why should they listen to you? And, if they did agree, it shouldn't be a problem to get the laws changed. You feel it's morally wrong. Ok, other parents don't have the same morality you do. Or, again, if they did, it shouldn't be too hard to gets laws passed.
And I'm still using it for its accuracy.
Fine, I'm just cautioning people to be aware of the emotional equivocation being used.
I don't understand. I'm obviously going to teach my kids; I'm just not going to teach them the same way someone teaches children their religion. Mostly I'm going to teach them how to think critically.
Sure in a way that you feel is appropriate. That doesn't necessarily mean they are going to have a better or happier life because of it.
I remember a story about a guy who decided to raise a genius. Only allow her to listen to classical music. Taught her mathematics, science, critical thinking. It worked. Ended up with an IQ of around 210? Not sure but pretty high.
Anyway she grew up miserable. Overweight, no friends but she was very smart. Who knows, teach her a little religion she might have ended up with a better support group. Still I'm sure the parent did what he thought was best.
You don't see indoctrination as more negative than positive? You have no reservations about parents imposing beliefs on kids rather than letting them decide for themselves?
Not if they want to be a soldier. Maybe if I could foresee the future. I'd know what were the correct choices for my kids. I don't and I don't believe you do either but I'm doing the best I can. I don't think it's my place to be telling other parents how they should be raising their kids. I hope it works out for the best but I don't have a crystal ball. Do you?
Correction: You have an opposition to people going about telling other parents they know better how to raise their kids in some cases but not others. Unless you don't have an opposition to telling parents you know better when it comes to beating them or not getting them medical help.
No, I would take what I felt is appropriate action according to my morals when faced with such circumstances. Has nothing to do with telling them how to or not to raise their kids. Has to do with me and my morals and my actions to protect the kid in a manner I saw fit. That's not because I view my morals as better. It's because I act according to my morality.
See, the issue is not that some people feel it's OK to tell other parents how to parent and other people don't feel that way. The issue is which particular methods of parenting people feel comfortable expressing an opinion on. I'm pretty sure we all agree that it's OK to say that parents who let their children die or suffer because they choose prayer over medical attention are parenting poorly. Essentially, with a lot of parenting, I agree we should just let parents do their thing without criticizing because we aren't in their shoes. I just disagree that teaching religion is one of those times.
Ok, I see no reason to concern myself with the religious belief of others. If a child believes and they are happy with it, great. If they are not happy, and there are a whole lot of things to not be happy about, of which religion seems fairly minor, hopefully they can see their way to changing things.
I know people have told me they had parents who they claimed used their religion to abuse them. However I don't believe in denying the rights of a parent because of those that few abuse their rights. You need to deal with the individual, not everyone who happens to profess the same religious belief.
1) You seem to have missed the point. The point was that categorizing something as "common and accepted" is not a good way to go about making an argument for it. Those qualities don't mean the thing is necessarily good.
2) Are you saying people should own slaves, if that's what they feel is right?
What I'm saying is that what people feel is right is not based on objective morality. They felt as morally right as you do now. In the future, society may find your morality reprehensible and condemn you for it. You cannot use your own feelings as an objective gauge for morality.