VoidCat
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I did feel our different understandings of deity was the problem in the conversation which is why the two of us were flabbergasted by each other talking about deities. I've noticed that happens a lot when talking to muslims is that our views on deity often clash and I don't typically know how to explain how I view my gods when our understandings are so different even with just the defination of deity. I can sorta get where they are coming when it comes to understanding their god. But sometimes it seems so foreign to my way of thinking. And my way of thinking is just as foreign to them. Makes trying to have a conversation on deities and religion very difficult as I have to step outside of my own viewpoint and try to figure out theirs and theirs typically is a view so different from my own it often confuses me. Then I have to figure out how to explain mine in a way that makes sense and keeping in mind possible questions that would pop up that I don't consider often due to the fact such questions don't tend to often have a place or importance in my thinking...Indeed.
That difficulty in mutual understanding seems to be very sincere from the Muslim side, and I think that the reason why is fairly clear.
Islam is a doctrine that uses a very specific conception of deity and shapes itself accordingly.
As one would reasonably expect, Islam (like most or all doctrines) proposes certain values and goals to be considered as worthy and disregards, neglects or opposes others that might be favored by competing doctrines. Which is fair enough, of course.
But it is just as reasonable to point out the (fairly obvious) fact that the end result are specific flavors of doctrine and deity that don't converge all that much with others.
More to the point, that lack of convergence is a big deal for Muslims. The contrast with Hinduism is very enlightening and, perhaps, a bit confusing or even disturbing for those who are not used to the freedom of interpretation that Hinduism offers.
At the end of the day, the role, needs and limitations that Muslims expect their god to have are simply not very similar to those of other doctrines and beliefs.
It is only a problem because many people fail to expect that to be the real situation.
It gets really difficult talking about religion with Muslims. This is also a problem I run into with Christians as well but I used to be a christian I've never been a muslim. So it's easier trying to do this with Christians but not with Muslims.