Why? (Rant)

[Cynic]

Listening to you guys "boy-talk" is so funny. Yes, women do like men who dress well, but be careful about dressing too well in this day and age--you might start attracting the guys, too!

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The most important thing is just to take care of yourself. Take Spinkles, for instance: He takes regular showers, occasionally brushes his teeth, and knows the difference between a comb and deoderant. Ah, it makes my heart swim.

Guys who smell good, (and I'm not talking about cologne overload, here. Yuck!), are an instant turn-on, whereas guys who smell bad acheive a drastically oposite affect. Come to think of it, smell is such a powerful thing for girls, you should try to play that card, Druidus. Next time you're left "picking up the pieces", do so with the help of a little Abercrombie, perhaps?

Well generally you're not supposed to just spray the stuff on you, that seems to be what a lot of people do. I simply spray some on my hands, then rub the cologne on my neck, etc. Put some aftershave on too. I personally advise hugo boss, very good cologne. Also a lot of women like curve (from where I was from). Yes, smell is a good thing since women have a stronger sense of smell.

Also, go to the gym as much as possible; put a little muscle on, that helps too. Start playing sports, it helps build confidense and those testosterone levels man.

 

[Watcher]

Listening to you guys "boy-talk" is so funny. Yes, women do like men who dress well, but be careful about dressing too well in this day and age--you might start attracting the guys, too!

The most important thing is just to take care of yourself. Take Spinkles, for instance: He takes regular showers, occasionally brushes his teeth, and knows the difference between a comb and deoderant. Ah, it makes my heart swim.

:biglaugh: Too funny Ceridwen....lol.

A thought....get a pink shirt Dru It will show the ladies that you are comfortable with your sexuality! (just as long as you are clear about heterosexuality being what you are comfortable with)

 

[Ceridwen018]

Well generally you're not supposed to just spray the stuff on you, that seems to be what a lot of people do. I simply spray some on my hands, then rub the cologne on my neck, etc. Put some aftershave on too. I personally advise hugo boss, very good cologne. Also a lot of women like curve (from where I was from). Yes, smell is a good thing since women have a stronger sense of smell.

Also, go to the gym as much as possible; put a little muscle on, that helps too. Start playing sports, it helps build confidense and those testosterone levels man

Metro alert!

Lol--just be careful that you don't get too wrapped up in your appearance though. Do your homework, but once you're out with the girl, it has to be all about HER.

 

[Cynic]

Metro alert!

Lol--just be careful that you don't get too wrapped up in your appearance though. Do your homework, but once you're out with the girl, it has to be all about HER.

Yah... I guess I should admit, I'm a metro sexual, pretty boy, whatever you wanna call it.

 

[Ceridwen018]

Yah... I guess I should admit, I'm a metro sexual, pretty boy, whatever you wanna call it.

That's alright--metros need love too, am I right?

 

[Cynic]

That's alright--metros need love too, am I right?

Yes, and we metros get plently of lovin

 

[Mr Spinkles]

The most important thing is just to take care of yourself. Take Spinkles, for instance: He takes regular showers, occasionally brushes his teeth, and knows the difference between a comb and deoderant.

One is for brushing armpit hair.

 

[jewscout]

One is for brushing armpit hair.

:biglaugh:

and now i can die, my life is complete lol

 

[kreeden]

And why can't we just be yourselves ?

Don't get me wrong here . All of the above is good advice . But as for the " looking good " thing , there has been times when I personally have tried to look my worst ... I was in a " leave me alone and give me space " mood , and as strange as it may sound , that attracts people too .

Seems to me that the trick isn't finding someone . Nor is it finding someone who likes you for who you are . But it finding someone who likes you for who you are , and liking them back .

 

[michel]

And why can't we just be yourselves ?

Don't get me wrong here . All of the above is good advice . But as for the " looking good " thing , there has been times when I personally have tried to look my worst ... I was in a " leave me alone and give me space " mood , and as strange as it may sound , that attracts people too .

Seems to me that the trick isn't finding someone . Nor is it finding someone who likes you for who you are . But it finding someone who likes you for who you are , and liking them back .

I found that the worst thing to do when looking for someone is just that; looking for someone. I was twenty five, had my heart broken a few times; I must admit I thought "what the heck!" - these girls want nothing more than friendship, that's how it is; within a month, I was introduced to my wife.........

Honestly, I think we try too hard, sometimes.

 

[kreeden]

Honestly, I think we try too hard, sometimes.

Yes . There is two things that ALL hunters know . First , you can't spook the prey . And second , there is always another chance .

 

[Watcher]

And why can't we just be yourselves ?
Seems to me that the trick isn't finding someone . Nor is it finding someone who likes you for who you are . But it finding someone who likes you for who you are , and liking them back .

You must spread some frubals around before giving them to kreeden again:bounce
Namaste. A person needs to like you for you, there is absolutly no reason to change.
(Avril Lavigne's song "Complicated" comes to mind right now)

 

[kreeden]

Thank you M'lady .

BTW has anyone seen our young Druid lately ?

 

[Watcher]

lol, I was just wondering where he had gotten to.

 

[michel]

Yes . There is two things that ALL hunters know . First , you can't spook the prey . And second , there is always another chance .

Hunter ? do you shoot to kill ?:biglaugh:

 

[Cynic]

Yes . There is two things that ALL hunters know . First , you can't spook the prey . And second , there is always another chance .

do you have anymore hunting tips, expert hunter kreeden?

 

[Sunstone]

BTW has anyone seen our young Druid lately ?

I believe he's gone on vacation far to the south in Newfoundland.

 

[Cynic]

And why can't we just be yourselves ?

Don't get me wrong here . All of the above is good advice . But as for the " looking good " thing , there has been times when I personally have tried to look my worst ... I was in a " leave me alone and give me space " mood , and as strange as it may sound , that attracts people too .

Seems to me that the trick isn't finding someone . Nor is it finding someone who likes you for who you are . But it finding someone who likes you for who you are , and liking them back .

I certaintly agree with you kreeden.
However, people tend to find things about their partner that they dislike, I think this happens especially with newly weds, they see a different side to their partners once they start living together. It seems that a lot of people have these selfish expectations when they come into relationships, and try to change certain aspects about their partner to suit their own needs. Accepting someone for who they are, I think is essential for a long, healthy, good relationship, and anyone who will do this is worthwhile. I think real love maybe selfless, not a need that you are trying to fill. But I see that a lot of women have these expectations on what how they want their man to be (I mean women are naturally selective). I think this also has a lot to do with where you live (I do know that women tend to act differently in different areas).
If you are insecure with yourself and who you are, I know that women can tell when you try to be someone that you're not. I think a really important thing is, is to be secure and confident with yourself.

The dressing good thing, all it really does is make you stand out and attract a bigger audience, but you can still do that without. I mean, the thing I was discussing, are like luring techniques. It's much easier to lure the prey to you and then you wait for the right signals that tell you when it's the right time to strike, rather than tracking them down, you get tired in the chase, and plus you have an easier chance of spooking them when you stalk your prey (unless if you're just really stealthy)....ya

 

[kreeden]

And I agree with what you are saying Cynic . However , if we pretent to be something we are not , wouldn't that make the expectations even harder to fullfill ?

And think of the dressing up as using bait . It attacts more game .

No Michel , I use a bola .... { that way I can run away if they get uncontrolable .. }

 

[Sunstone]

When it comes to dressing up for the ladies, I find that the most impressive thing I can do is conscientiously braid my armpit hair. It's attention to details like that that create the perfect first impression.