Savage,
As the resident bull in the china shop (referring to myself), I understand the problems not only of telling the truth, but also of needlessly offending people. I am very much a work in progress on both counts; so I won't judge either you or Horroble. I just told her what her words SOUNDED like, taken, as they were, out of context.
As a point of reference, the Slovenian side of my family is of Jewish descent, from Jews who left the poverty of their ghetto in what was then Austria but is now in the Ukraine. They became Catholics in Slovenia, probably around 1840, and did not identify as Jews. Some of them later emigrated to America, as did some of their Jewish cousins. When World War II broke out, it didn't matter whether they were Jewish or not: Those who were caught in Europe all suffered incredibly, and those who had come to America did not.
Those were horrible times, which is something that it seems the present generation is largely unaware of. Nowadays, an Arab is killed as collateral damage in an Israeli response to a rocket attack, and the world cries "Genocide!" It is not. Genocide is a deliberate policy to exterminate an entire people, as was the case in the unthinkably cruel treatment of the Jews at Auschwitz-Birkenau and other camps. Along with them, many died just as cruelly -- Russian prisoners, Poles, Gypsies, mentally ill, dissidents and suspected dissidents and, in the case of one of my relatives, ordinary citizens who happened to live in an area where there was some resistance to the Nazis. Yes, and there were some JWs among them -- not many, but some. Regardless of what group they belonged to or why they were there, they suffered cruel and inhuman treatment; and their memory should be respected.
In my own family, I thank God that my immediate family lived in the US and not in Europe.