It there are three choices, I have a one in three chance of making the best choice. Take away one choice I now have a one in two chance of making the best choice. If one of two choices is the correct one, I have a one in two chance of making the correct choice. And that is regardless of anything Monty says that influences my choice.
That would only be true if YOU had chosen which curtain to pull back after making your initial selection not knowing which of the three curtains concealed the car when you made your initial choice and when you chose a curtain to reveal. If YOU make the decision - say to reveal door number 3 - you have a 1 in 3 chance of exposing the car. If you expose a goat, THEN you have a 1 in 2 chance of having chosen correctly initially and a 1 in 2 chance of being wrong. NOW, a trade is a 50-50 proposition.
But when somebody who knows where two goats are chooses and ALWAYS chooses a goat, your odds of having picked correctly in the first place don't change.
Maybe this will help: YOU make the choice of the reveal and expose the car behind a curtain that you DIDN'T chose. Now what are your odds of winning the car if you trade your door - say door number 1 - for the other concealed one, door number 2 (you opened door 3 and there was the car)? What if you don't trade?
Answer: 0% chance of winning whether you trade or not. This is an entirely different scenario than the one where Monte chooses which door to reveal, where your chances never fall to 0%, since he never shows you the car first.
Why? Because unlike as was the case when YOU chose, which was a random choice, your odds don't ever change once you've made your initial selection even after Monte shows you a goat. You know he has one or two of them after you've chosen, and he knows which and where, so HIS choices don't affect the odds that YOU chose correctly or incorrectly initially.
Once again from a slightly different perspective: How often does Monte have two goats to show you after you've selected and how often does he have a car and a goat to show you? Only one day out of three will the contestant have chosen the car and left Monte with two goats, and 2/3 of the time, they will have guessed incorrectly leaving Monte with the car with one goat to choose from to reveal to you.
The gist of this is that changes to 50-50 when YOU choose which of Monte's doors to reveal, because since YOUR choice is random, YOU might choose the car. But he never will, so his revealing a goat from either a car and a goat or two goats changes nothing for you.
One more point. If I haven't convinced you to always switch when Monte makes the choice, there's this: From your perspective, you should recognize that you might be right and you might be wrong. If you're right, it doesn't matter whether you swap or not. Your chances are 50-50 either way.
If you're wrong, it does matter, and you should definitely swap to double your chances from 1 in 3 to 2 in 3.
That's a different math problem from the Monte Hall problem now, but it leads you to the same conclusion by a different path: switch.
Does that help you to decide what to do? By switching, either your chances improve if you are wrong that your odds improve from 1 in 3 to 50-50 after a goat reveal, or are unaffected if you are correct.
Does the phrase everything to gain and nothing to lose mean anything to you? We ALWAYS take bets like that. It's like being able to hit a blackjack hand and if you bust, the hit doesn't count. Wouldn't you ALWAYS hit any hand under 21, even a 20, if offered it at no risk? You have a small chance of improving your position when your hand is close to 21, but no chance of worsening it. That's exactly analogous to this: everything to gain and nothing to lose.
It's also false. The odds remain 50/50 regardless what door you choose, or what door Monty opens.
You have an intuition there, not a mathematical proof. You think that you know the answer but cannot argue for being correct. You can only repeat your intuition. This is why intuition, or as others call it, a gut or visceral feeling or a feeling to the bones, is unreliable as a path to truth or knowledge.
The 3 doors are just theater because one is eliminated before you choose. And the one eliminated is always a goat. So the proposition was always 2 doors, and one with a car.
Nope. The proposition was always three doors and one with a car. The illusion is that that changes after a goat is revealed by the host the way it would if the contestant made that choice as explained above, but that's just not the case.