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Women Raping Men.

Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
I personally don't mind getting raped by a woman, as long as she's my type and doesn't do weird acts. Even if not, I think I'm still gonna be fine.

That's my initial feeling. It also applies only for me.
 

Kori

Dark Valkyrie...what's not to love?
I personally don't mind getting raped by a woman, as long as she's my type and doesn't do weird acts. Even if not, I think I'm still gonna be fine.

That's my initial feeling. It also applies only for me.

But if it's rape you wont have a choice if she is your type or if it's weird.
 

Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
But if it's rape you wont have a choice if she is your type or if it's weird.

True. But it still does not go against what I said. My second sentence explains that.

But yeah, I should have said "specially if" instead of "as long as" to clarify my point.
 

Poisonshady313

Well-Known Member
True. But it still does not go against what I said. My second sentence explains that.

But yeah, I should have said "specially if" instead of "as long as" to clarify my point.
So either you have absolutely no standards and would get with any human with a vagina, or you're lying when you say you wouldn't mind.

Which is it?
 

Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
Guys, I think I put it wrong. It's not that I want it by saying I don't mind it, I mean that I think I can take it and live with it.

This sounds more like a sex fantasy then reality. Isn't forcing themselves on you when you don't want it weird to begin with?
It is weird. I'm just talking about how I think could take it. How I can manage to live with myself with it, not that it is weird or not.
I don't know if your imagination on the weird is enough here.
Ditto ;)
So either you have absolutely no standards and would get with any human with a vagina, or you're lying when you say you wouldn't mind.
Which is it?
I don't see what how what I said imply any of the above to answer the question.
Brother, if you knew what you are talking about, you would never say such a thing.
Well, it's what I think. But let's hope it doesn't happen to me.
I'm interested tho. Why do you believe so?
 

LuisDantas

Aura of atheification
Premium Member
I'm interested tho. Why do you believe so?
Rape is the unholy disguising of an act of violence and humiliation with the superficial appearance of intimacy that is supposed to be voluntary and reciprocal.

While there is such a thing as play-acting the idea for fun (and it is quite valid if the proper care is taken), the real thing is very much demeaning and brutal.
 

Poisonshady313

Well-Known Member
I personally don't mind getting raped by a woman, as long as she's my type and doesn't do weird acts. Even if not, I think I'm still gonna be fine.

That's my initial feeling. It also applies only for me.

True. But it still does not go against what I said. My second sentence explains that.

But yeah, I should have said "specially if" instead of "as long as" to clarify my point.

I don't see what how what I said imply any of the above to answer the question.

If on any level you "don't mind getting raped" by a woman, then you don't believe you can be raped by a woman. If you passively don't care, it means you don't mind a woman having her way with you. That's not rape. When you object, and it's done to you anyway, it's rape. You can't ever not mind that, otherwise it wouldn't be rape.

So, if you don't mind any woman having her way with you even if she's not your type and does weird acts, it basically says that you have no standards. You might have preferences, but there's apparently no line that can't be crossed.

Unless there is a line for you that can't be crossed, in which case your claim not to mind is untrue.
 

Smart_Guy

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Premium Member
Rape is the unholy disguising of an act of violence and humiliation with the superficial appearance of intimacy that is supposed to be voluntary and reciprocal.

While there is such a thing as play-acting the idea for fun (and it is quite valid if the proper care is taken), the real thing is very much demeaning and brutal.

Agreed.

I guess it is just me that says can cope with getting rape by a woman due to lack of real life experience.

If on any level you "don't mind getting raped" by a woman, then you don't believe you can be raped by a woman. If you passively don't care, it means you don't mind a woman having her way with you. That's not rape. When you object, and it's done to you anyway, it's rape. You can't ever not mind that, otherwise it wouldn't be rape.

So, if you don't mind any woman having her way with you even if she's not your type and does weird acts, it basically says that you have no standards. You might have preferences, but there's apparently no line that can't be crossed.

Unless there is a line for you that can't be crossed, in which case your claim not to mind is untrue.

Okay :)

By the way, I mistranslated my mind. Basically what I meant is that I think I can cope with it. It could be just a wild thought due to lack of experience, but it is highly possible that I can cope with it still.
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Agreed.

I guess it is just me that says can cope with getting rape by a woman due to lack of real life experience.



Okay :)

By the way, I mistranslated my mind. Basically what I meant is that I think I can cope with it. It could be just a wild thought due to lack of experience, but it is highly possible that I can cope with it still.
You got a frubal for this post because you recognized your own naivete,
which was what came to my mind when I first saw the post in question.
 

Kori

Dark Valkyrie...what's not to love?
You think some folks shouldn't get justice because of their gender and call it priorities. I call it being messed up.

I am messed up. Not anymore but I use to have Fantasies of torturing rapists, pimps, and the like. Got put into a mental hospital for 5 days for it too. I do not have them anymore cause I got bored with them. As soon as so called people, like cops, start to rescue sex slaves in a significant way, and they can, then the priority will shift.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
I do know a man who was raped. He kept telling this....well, woman because the word I want to use isn't forum appropriate....but anyways he kept telling her no, so she got him drunk and took advantage. It's difficult to estimate the damage, because he already had so many issues weighing him down, but in the very minimum it was "another brick in the wall."*
*I use the expression, "another brick in the wall," in reference to the Pink Floyd album 'The Wall,' which is about a man who builds this psychological wall as a means of protecting himself, and everyone who has hurt him, everything bad that has happened to him, it adds another brick to this wall. He wants to tear it down, he wants help getting out, but I can speak from my own personal experience wanting it is easy but doing it is so much harder because you feel incredibly vulnerable when you try to even let someone have a glimpse inside the wall. But, anyways, I didn't know if you would be familiar with that album or not. If you aren't, and if it wouldn't put you at a bunch of risks (I don't know the full extent of Saudi laws and censorship regarding prog rock) then you should definitely check it out, as well as the movie, especially the movie. They are both very entertaining, but also very enlightening and mind opening.
 

Jumi

Well-Known Member
I am messed up. Not anymore but I use to have Fantasies of torturing rapists, pimps, and the like. Got put into a mental hospital for 5 days for it too. I do not have them anymore cause I got bored with them.
It's fine to have fantasies, but to confuse them with reality works against you.

As soon as so called people, like cops, start to rescue sex slaves in a significant way, and they can, then the priority will shift.
I can't agree with you here. I think all abuse should be punished.

Do you think we should let criminals that you fantasize about do what they want before you are satisfied that criminals you hate are all taken care of?
 

Kori

Dark Valkyrie...what's not to love?
It's fine to have fantasies, but to confuse them with reality works against you.


I can't agree with you here. I think all abuse should be punished.

Do you think we should let criminals that you fantasize about do what they want before you are satisfied that criminals you hate are all taken care of?

How have I confused them with reality?

I do not understand the last part.
 

freethinker44

Well-Known Member
I am messed up. Not anymore but I use to have Fantasies of torturing rapists, pimps, and the like. Got put into a mental hospital for 5 days for it too. I do not have them anymore cause I got bored with them. As soon as so called people, like cops, start to rescue sex slaves in a significant way, and they can, then the priority will shift.
Priorities have nothing to do with it. They can investigate female rape just as effectively as they can male rape without either taking anything away from the other. People can do two things at once you know.
 

psychoslice

Veteran Member
You think some folks shouldn't get justice because of their gender and call it priorities. I call it being messed up.


You want someone you're not attracted at all to have their way with you?[/QUOTE]
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Sorry I deleted that comment.
 

Kori

Dark Valkyrie...what's not to love?
Priorities have nothing to do with it. They can investigate female rape just as effectively as they can male rape without either taking anything away from the other. People can do two things at once you know.

I'm talking about the USO. So no they cannot do two things at once.
 
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