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Would anyone care to prove that 'love' exists?

Willamena

Just me
Premium Member
Certainly god exists as a subjective feeling/concept. Albeit, that's all that it can be shown to exist as.
Not all; along with those, god can also be shown to exist as word, as symbol, as myth, as sign... which is essentially to say, as idol.

Edit: To show god to exist is to idolize god.
 

Kilgore Trout

Misanthropic Humanist
God can be shown to exist, just not shown to exist. Okay.

I seriously hope you're not too dumb to see the difference between what you posted and what I posted. I know you like to play these little word games, but aren't you ever actually interested in actual communication?
 

Willamena

Just me
Premium Member
The concept represents something in idea form, something real; the emotion, a real-world response to real-world stimuli; the sign is a pointer, pointing figurative fingers at something else; the non-literal metaphor of myth captures hidden images; and the symbol entirely surrenders its identity to the thing it represents --like the words you're reading on the monitor do. Each of these things, in being what it is, is not simply what it is, and sometimes not what it is at all; and something, in being these things, is itself and sometimes something more.
 

Primordial Annihilator

Well-Known Member
The concept represents something in idea form, something real; the emotion, a real-world response to real-world stimuli; the sign is a pointer, pointing figurative fingers at something else; the non-literal metaphor of myth captures hidden images; and the symbol entirely surrenders its identity to the thing it represents --like the words you're reading on the monitor do. Each of these things, in being what it is, is not simply what it is, and sometimes not what it is at all; and something, in being these things, is itself and sometimes something more.

Ooh my favourite subject...:D

My symbol, the one I identify with above all else, is the Dragon or the Serpent.
 

Primordial Annihilator

Well-Known Member
I don't equate more knowledge with less imagination or more fun. The more tools one has access to, the more imagination opens up.

Hmmmm....I equate fun in Scrabble terms whereby each player tries to use as many interesting and rarely used words as possible...a kind of vocabulary contest...you like my Nan play to win...thats fine if thats what floats your boat...I am not criticising your Scrabble Life Choice.
 

Wombat

Active Member
Love is attachment....no matter how unconditional or deep.

Certainly can be...
But “attachment” can also take the form of ‘Co dependence’- two addicts ‘attached’ to each other in a mutually supportive downwards spiral. It may be at times ‘loving’...but I doubt such Co dependence attachment is love.
Then there is Ataraxis, a word/notion coined by an Australian therapist to distinguish between healthy loving attachment to another and the mere (romantic love/sexual conquest) excitement that comes with the possession of or by something/someone new.
Attaraxis is the excitement arising from the smell of a new car (attachment), Ataraxis is “I’m no longer in a relationship with her, but I couldn’t stand her being with someone else” (attachment)...
While love may be attachment not all attachment is love
 

Wombat

Active Member
......you like my Nan play to win...thats fine if thats what floats your boat...I am not criticising your Scrabble Life Choice.

Hmmmmm.....Not feeling the Scrabble love.

Alfred Butts, the American inventor of Scrabble, was a self confessed poor speller.

His wife once beat him by scoring 234 points, triumphing with the word 'quixotic'.

He never played Scrabble again.:sad4:

If she really loved him she would have let him win...?... ;)
 

Magic Man

Reaper of Conversation
But if I get a brain scan of thinking/feeling/experiencing Unicorns.....do Unicorns become "real and objective things"?

No, the brain scans of the person are real things, not the unicorns.

And....on what basis can we detirmine that the "behavior" and "consequences" we observe are not to be attributed to some other emotion/influence/motivation?

Because then we'd call them the different emotion. The behavior and consequences are what we're talking about when we talk about love. If it was different behavior and consequences, we'd call it hatred or apathy or anger, etc.
 

Magic Man

Reaper of Conversation
Same might be said for God :)

Yup, they might, but it wouldn't be the same thing. People claim God is a real thing. When people talk about God, they're not talking about their feelings or emotions; they're talking about an actual being. We know that people feel something they call God, just as we know people feel something they call love. In both cases there is no entity outside of that feeling; it's just that in the case of love, there's not supposed to be, while in God's case there is.
 

Wombat

Active Member
No, the brain scans of the person are real things, not the unicorns..

Oh that's good...because some people seemed to be suggesting that just because the Neuroimaging registers a response to particular stimuli (ie word/notion- 'love', 'God', ect) that the stimuli was thereby identified as a "real thing".

The only "real things" we have on the table thus far are the brain and brain scans..........and neither prove love or God...just that the brain responds when these notions are evoked.

Because then we'd call them the different emotion. The behavior and consequences are what we're talking about when we talk about love. If it was different behavior and consequences, we'd call it hatred or apathy or anger, etc.

You are assuming that we/all humans would know if our behaviour was motivated by love or self interest or lust or posessiveness or Ataraxis or Co dependance or power/controll.
I've worked in the Welfare Sector long enough to see a lot of bizzare "behavior and consequences" (knowingly and unknowingly) palmed off as "love"...when in fact it was abuse.

So, no, there can be lots of reasons and motivations for "behaviour" and "calling" the reason 'love' does not make it so....nor provide any proof of its existance.
 

Wombat

Active Member
People claim God is a real thing..

No...not all theists do so...nor most scriptures...many deny and reject any 'form' 'substance' or 'thingyness' in regard God. Some even reject a pronouncable name in the effort to debar the conception of "thing".



When people talk about God, they're not talking about their feelings or emotions; they're talking about an actual being. .

>Some people< may do as you describe and talk " about an actual being" and others would consider that as shallow, inacurate and unrepresentative of God as saying 'love' is just sex.

For some talking about God is explicitly "talking about their feelings or emotions" and for them 'God is love'.



We know that people feel something they call God, just as we know people feel something they call love. In both cases there is no entity outside of that feeling; it's just that in the case of love, there's not supposed to be, while in God's case there is.

The sticking point appears to be the notions of thing, being, and entity located in space.

Without form or substance God may be a concious 'entity' but problems arise when you attempt to give God a 'geography'-ie "in God's case there is- supposed to be-an outside"
Is the "supposed to be" based on a familiar/common perception?...or drawn from a religious scripture? Because most scripture I am familiar with argues against this "supposed to be".
Likewise 'heaven'
Ask many people where/what 'heaven' is and they will describe a 'place'....problem is scripture indicating "Heaven is within"...and that indicates a condition (perhaps a feeling...perhaps a love)...............not a location.
 
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