Don't project your experience onto others. Don't project your misunderstanding onto others.
They're making the same error I made. That's the easy part. I wouldn't expect agreement unless one had the open-mindedness to see what I saw - confirmation biases tend to filter that kind of awareness out - and the and critical thinking skills to understand its significance. That's the hard part. We have essentially the same experience and we once interpreted it the same when calling it a direct experience of God. The difference is in the interpretation of that experience - what it signifies. We no longer agree. I understand people resenting others thinking that they have erred about gods and attempting to discredit such opinions, but it remains my opinion and I'm pretty sure its correct, and nobody has refuted it.
I have further evidence that these people are only experiencing their own minds and mistaking it for a god. No two describe the same god. When one is wondering whether others are seeing something they claim to see or not, we survey them and compare their answers. Let me share the parable of the color-blind boy.
He's been told all his life that that what he sees as a kind of gray color is actually either of two colors, red or green - that he's colorblind - and he believes it, until one day he remembers all of the other collective pranks pulled on him like the Santa Claus and Tooth Fairy stories. And then there was that day snipe hunting. So, he wants to test whether people are really seeing something he can't see or not.
To do this, he buys a few dozen pairs of red socks and green socks, numbers them, and has somebody who claims to see these colors tell him whether #1 is red or green, #2 next, and so on, until he has a list of sock numbers and alleged colors. Then, he has several people who claim to see red and green identify the sock colors separately and without prior collaboration. If their answers are the same, he knows they see something not visible to him, and if the answers are all over the place, he knows he's being pranked.
Same with this. Tell me what you think you see, Mr. Theist, and I'll tell you whether you are really seeing it or not.
If you claim that someone robbed you, and pointed out the person, but cannot produce one shred of evidence of what the person robbed you of, that person does not need to pay you any mind. Case dismissed... Regardless of what you have in your mind.
Agreed. You probably think that's an apt analogy to our situation, but I don't. I said that two of us claimed to never have seen the science you claim you provided in support of your god belief when it was requested, and you said that we were incorrect, that you have provided it. Your claim was rejected, and the matter is resolved. I don't think you're a lair, but I think you're wrong and I don't believe you. You've refused to support your claim with a link. I'm pretty sure I know why. What are the logical possibilities here and their relative likelihood?
It's pretty arrogant of you to tell someone that their experience of their own experience is wrong.
They're all correct that it was I who told them that, but not in those exact words. What I told them is that I don't believe that they are seeing a god, but rather, their own minds. I told them that I believe that they are interpreting their experience incorrectly. And you've seen much of my argument why. Nobody's given me a reason to think differently.