The heck it's not relevant! While I agree one can and should correct and discipline those in error, actions which are traumatic and damaging, violet or torturous against, are not helpful. They are damaging. Those are not to be considered by any standard as "disciplining".
Actions which are traumatic and damaging, are relative to each subject, based on what you are referring to.
So, what exactly are you referring to. What we started talking about - shunning, or something else... like torture?
Shunning, where you refuse to talk to the person, disown your own family members, put them out on the street destitute and alone, are all forms of torture. It is abuse. Abuse is not to be understood in the same context as discipline. A father that punches his children in the face, for instance is not disciplining them, as much as he might like to lie to himself it is. Shunning has severe negative consequences. It is an act of violence against them.
Says you, but that is not factual.
When you produce those facts, I will be willing to look at them.
In the meantime, here are some facts:
(Proverbs 13:24) Whoever holds back his rod hates his son, But the one who loves him disciplines him diligently.
(Hebrews 12:11) True, no discipline seems for the present to be joyous, but grievous; yet afterward to those who have been trained by it it yields peaceable fruit, namely, righteousness.
Is that true?
It's possible to interview a few who were "shunned".
Many who have fallen into serious sin have admitted that the firm action the elders took gave them the jolt they needed to come to their senses, change their course of action, and return to Jehovah.
Disfellowshipping among JWs, takes place only if a member of the congregation unrepentantly engages in gross sin.
To take no disciplinary action in a case like that, is the same as turning a blind eye to repeated sin in the congregation.
That tarnishes the reputation of the congregation, and the God it represents.
Doing so, exposes the congregation to corruption, and worst, a disapproved state, as it cuts off the free flow of Jehovah's holy spirit.
Paul said, ". . .hand such a man over to Satan for the destruction of the flesh, so that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord." (1 Corinthians 5:5)
The sinner ends up where their desires have led them - part of Satan's world. Not the clean congregation of Jehovah.
So disfellowshiping accomplishes only very good things.
It upholds Jehovah’s standards.
It preserves the spiritual cleanness of the congregation.
It helps the unrepentant one see how serious their sin is, and it may help them come to their senses.
The discipline is necessary.
Actually, this is the same principle used by family members all around the world.
I believe you watch television.
Have you ever seen a movie where a family member becomes a "thug" joins a gang, and gets involved in illegal activity. What does the father try to do for the younger son - the brother? He tries to protect him from the influence... and yes, it does involve limiting association.
In some cases, yes, it does involve the "thug" leaving the home.
This is real life. We can interview such individuals.
Question for you.
Are you saying that obeying
these scriptures is unChristian?
So do you believe torture and abuse are valid forms of discipline. Yes, or no?
That's an irrelevant question. You were told that - not in those words - by
@YoursTrue
Anyway, I'll answer. What some people call torture, is based on their subjective and sometimes biased worldview. So your question is a loaded one, in the first place.
For example, a wayward child who wants to go partying with friends her mom considers bad association may exclaim, "Mom. this is torture!"
It's not. It's just her being rebellious.
This is the case with many today who want to do their own thing, and believe what they want. So they obey only what suits them. The Bible to them is like a script they can change at whim, to suit their worldview.
I answered.
Giving a yes or no answer to a l loaded question is not wise, nor beneficial... to anyone.
Bonus question. When the Bible says we should treat those who refuse to listen to the church as "pagans and tax collectors", what specifically does that mean to you? Shunning them? Calling them unclean and hiding your righteous face from them? Please explain.
It means this...
(2 Thessalonians 3:14) . . .But if anyone is not obedient to our word through this letter, keep this one marked and stop associating with him, so that he may become ashamed.
What does that mean? It means what it says.
If you answer my two questions above first, then I'll be happy to help you understand scripture when it talks about discipline and correction in a proper, compassionate sense. Putting family members on extinction, is abuse, not correction.
I'm listening. Help me understand the scriptures.
BTW, I've already answered every single one of your points in the very quotes you grabbed of mine where I was responding to the other poster, whom I believe now understands the truth of them, since he has dropped out of arguing his original claims. I do not believe you actually read them. So take your questions, then read the posts of mine you quoted, and you'll find each of your points was already addressed and answered.
No worries. I did see your arguments.
I saw 1) you went for a scripture (Hebrew Scriptures / OT) that does not apply to Christians, when we are actually discussing Christian teachings. 2) You dismissed Paul's letter to the Thessalonians, as if by doing so that somehow makes his letter to the Corinthians null and void.
...amd that's all I saw... none of which answers any of my questions, nor addresses anything I said.
So no. You have not already answered every single one of my points.