Every time a socialist explains their views and explicitly says that they don't support the authoritarian models in the vein of the USSR and China, you cite a dictionary definition that is both narrow in scope and vague at best due to the ambiguity of "means of production."
You're committing the etymological fallacy of calling
capitalism with regulation & social services provided
by taxation "socialism" & "marxism".
You repeatedly eschew better labels like "democratic
socialism" & "social democracy" in favor of "socialism",
which is the absence of private ownership of the
means of production.
But capitalism with social services isn't "socialism".
It's "capitalism".
It's much easier to attack a socialist position if it endorses tyranny or a one-party system...
It isn't about being "easier". That's a glib error
based upon misunderstanding my argument.
Socialists fail to acknowledge that implementing
such vastly increased government control over the
economy has historically been accompanied by
authoritarianism in general.
Socialists are analogous to anti-abortion types,
in that their goals have consequences they don't
want to see. Anti-abortion folk don't want the
consequence of back alley abortions or children
being forced to give birth before they're ready.
They just want to save all those fetuses.
Socialists are similar in that they want a system
that ensures all their wonderful social & economic
goals, but don't face consequences of socialism
in every country adopting it.