Why this perception on your part that we are not clear thinking and intolerant?
As I explained atheists are just criticizing religious belief. That is a response, it's criticism. It isn't a dogma that is being claimed to be an absolute truth. Now you might respond by saying that denying one person's claims of absote truth is itself a claim of truth, but that isn't accurate. Being critical of claims of truth that are not backed by evidence is simply pointing out observations.
I like plenty of atheists, but when they try to destroy out belief in God, that in my view is proselytization, trying to make us atheists like you.
Destroy your belief? That sounds overly dramatic and victimized. You volunteer to join a forum where religious ideas are scrutinized. That's your choice, unlike gays being gay.
Atheists are not going to be sympathetic to claims about a god, and as we see in this thread, the condemnation of gays. Do you follow me here, it is Bahai who are prejudiced against gays for religious reasons, and atheists are the tolerant side and condemn the bahai for their ironic prejudice.
Theists often cite their dogmas that are immoral and intolerant in open debate, and then get upset when these claims are subjected to criticism.