Your "ideals" of what a woman should be is basically making them an object. They are nothing more to you but a sex doll that should pander to your every whim. That is what I learned from the video you showed. Was she sexy? Of course, but expecting every woman to be like a sex toy (which is...
I fail to see how this is a fair response to his question in any way shape or form. In no way do any of the arts you mentioned try to rule our lives through dictatorship and take ownership of EVERYTHING!